I am a contract employee and have been talking with my employer (not agency) since my start date about being hired on full-time with the company. They love my performance and think the world of me.
When getting to know them, they asked certain questions about my personal life (spouse, children, etc.) and I confided in them that my husband is attending graduate school and we are originally from another town.
Then, things changed. I was talking with my employer who then asked about my anticipated length of service. I told them at least 2 years, due to my current situation. They told me they don't know if they want to take that risk with me (hire me on as a regular employee). They want a firm commitment for longer than that amount of time from me.
The agency wants me to stay on a permanent temp to get more money. Is this discrimination? What are my rights?Dear HR: Is my spouse's graduate program creating employment discrimination for me?
There are two forms of discrimination, legal and illegal,
If they discriminate against you because of race, sex, race, maybe even sexual orientation, you have a legal right.
but if they discriminate because they don't beleive you willl stay there, or because you have red hair, or because you are too tall, they can do that, since there is no law against it.
Why not just tell them you have talked it over and would plan on staying 5 years. So you leave after 2 it is called lying at the interview, most people always do that when asked how long will you stay. Since you will stay till you get a better job offer or move or somethingDear HR: Is my spouse's graduate program creating employment discrimination for me?
Regularization does not require commitment for longer period of time in the company. If you want to leave the company, you can do so because it is allowed under the law.
and go to confession after lying too right. lol talk to an employment lawyer if economically possible. here in my city in florida they give free consultation for the first visit.
This is not discrimination as they are saying that some of the criteria are:
1. Commitment
2. Qualifications (Which you state you have)
Obviously they need to consider the fact that you may not be able to stay that long and will end up having to get another employee after you leave.
Thursday, July 29, 2010
Have you lost a spouse and then remarried?
you really can't compare the two marriages or spouses but is it what you thought it would be?Have you lost a spouse and then remarried?
I was widowed at the age of 27 and remarried at the age of 37. I try to never compare the marriages or spouses. If my new husband asks a specific question about how something was done in my first marriage, I tell him. In my case, getting remarried is more than I thought it could be. I have matured and mellowed in the past 10 years. I have learned to let little things go that I allowed to bother me in my first marriage. I don't think my current happiness reflects poorly on my deceased husband or our marriage.Have you lost a spouse and then remarried?
I was married for 27 years and my husband left me for another woman. That was 9 years ago and yes I have remarried. Sorry to say but yes I sometimes compare and sometimes I miss the ex and that life very much. I think it's natural though. Anyway, I hope so. I know I love my husband but I must admit I miss the life that was simple and not being a separated family. Especially on holidays.
Red
I THINK! if you got divorce one time you can married with them Again , it is normal //if it is tow different parson ,in the some realign you should get divorce before you get married Again .if it is with seam parson, after divorce when you find out you did mastic you have to wait until she or he find out too ,you can get bake to gather .if you want that,and she want that too!
but some people think after you get divorce ,it is good to married with some one als to changed your life in that case you will find out /what was wrong with your FIRST marriage and why it didn't work ,if you find out it was your fault and you Stile love him .it is ok to leave the man you or he is not Happy with , and go-bake to your X that you love .you can married with your x at any time if he or she want that too ,forgiveness is good alwas if they promising don't do it Again! good luke
I was widowed after less than two years into my first marriage. I remarried. I don't compare the two. My second marriage ended in divorce. Was it what I thought it would be? No. But not because I'd lost my first husband, but because my second husband and I couldn't work out our issues.
yes. you can compare... like comparing a 1974 ford pinto to a 2008 Bentley.
I was widowed at the age of 27 and remarried at the age of 37. I try to never compare the marriages or spouses. If my new husband asks a specific question about how something was done in my first marriage, I tell him. In my case, getting remarried is more than I thought it could be. I have matured and mellowed in the past 10 years. I have learned to let little things go that I allowed to bother me in my first marriage. I don't think my current happiness reflects poorly on my deceased husband or our marriage.Have you lost a spouse and then remarried?
I was married for 27 years and my husband left me for another woman. That was 9 years ago and yes I have remarried. Sorry to say but yes I sometimes compare and sometimes I miss the ex and that life very much. I think it's natural though. Anyway, I hope so. I know I love my husband but I must admit I miss the life that was simple and not being a separated family. Especially on holidays.
Red
I THINK! if you got divorce one time you can married with them Again , it is normal //if it is tow different parson ,in the some realign you should get divorce before you get married Again .if it is with seam parson, after divorce when you find out you did mastic you have to wait until she or he find out too ,you can get bake to gather .if you want that,and she want that too!
but some people think after you get divorce ,it is good to married with some one als to changed your life in that case you will find out /what was wrong with your FIRST marriage and why it didn't work ,if you find out it was your fault and you Stile love him .it is ok to leave the man you or he is not Happy with , and go-bake to your X that you love .you can married with your x at any time if he or she want that too ,forgiveness is good alwas if they promising don't do it Again! good luke
I was widowed after less than two years into my first marriage. I remarried. I don't compare the two. My second marriage ended in divorce. Was it what I thought it would be? No. But not because I'd lost my first husband, but because my second husband and I couldn't work out our issues.
yes. you can compare... like comparing a 1974 ford pinto to a 2008 Bentley.
Do You and your spouse like amusement parks?
Do you go together- even if you don't have kids?Do You and your spouse like amusement parks?
Well, we do have kids, but we love going, and riding rides together. We live less than an hour from one of the best in the US: Six Flags over GA. They recently installed a coaster called Goliath which is enormous, fast, and smooth, the best I've ever ridden.Do You and your spouse like amusement parks?
Of course! Living in Florida, we make it a point to go to Universal Studios and Islands of Adventure, Disney, Sea World, Busch Gardens, Wet %26amp; Wild and all the other fun places to go! We love to go by ourselves but usually go with a group of 6 other friends and roll through the parks like we own it, lol!
Me and my husband have been there 3x...and we have kids. When they get older we'll take them so we can go on the rides and stuff together. We take them to local festivals and parks and stuff, but we want to go to the amusement park for all the roller coasters, not the kiddie stuff. Does that make me a bad mom?
We love amusement parks and have season passes to Disneyland. Sometimes we take our daughter but we also like to go alone for date night!
We love Disneyland! We have 2 kids and we try to go at least once a month since we have annual passes. I think even without kids we would still enjoy it because we are still young at heart. :D
yes we always have a seasons pass to canadas wonderland. no kids. i love the water park!!! woo!!!
well,the divorce is quite amusing ........
Well, we do have kids, but we love going, and riding rides together. We live less than an hour from one of the best in the US: Six Flags over GA. They recently installed a coaster called Goliath which is enormous, fast, and smooth, the best I've ever ridden.Do You and your spouse like amusement parks?
Of course! Living in Florida, we make it a point to go to Universal Studios and Islands of Adventure, Disney, Sea World, Busch Gardens, Wet %26amp; Wild and all the other fun places to go! We love to go by ourselves but usually go with a group of 6 other friends and roll through the parks like we own it, lol!
Me and my husband have been there 3x...and we have kids. When they get older we'll take them so we can go on the rides and stuff together. We take them to local festivals and parks and stuff, but we want to go to the amusement park for all the roller coasters, not the kiddie stuff. Does that make me a bad mom?
We love amusement parks and have season passes to Disneyland. Sometimes we take our daughter but we also like to go alone for date night!
We love Disneyland! We have 2 kids and we try to go at least once a month since we have annual passes. I think even without kids we would still enjoy it because we are still young at heart. :D
yes we always have a seasons pass to canadas wonderland. no kids. i love the water park!!! woo!!!
well,the divorce is quite amusing ........
How often does your spouse tell you that he/she loves you?
my husband tells me that he loves and adores me all the time. How often does your spouse tell you that he/she loves you?
Constantly. We tell each other all the time, just out of the blue. Some of our friends and family are amazed by it. I wouldnt have it any other way. How often does your spouse tell you that he/she loves you?
My boyfriend tells me all the time. Multiple times when we talk on the phone, randomly throughout the day he texts me ';i love you'; and he does it when Im feeling really sad and he doesn't know what else to say. The important thing though that I feel is better then saying ';i love you'; is showing a person you love them. It really shows they mean it. He does this through being there for me through thick and thin, respecting me and doing things for me because he wants to not because I ask him to.
I never hear my mom and dad say it, but they kiss whenever the other comes home from work and they always go out together (movies, dinner) and every now and then I hear them getting it on, which is gross beyond reason but in a twisted way, it makes me happy that they're a healthy couple. They show it so much, I guess they don't have to say it.
thats his way of showing that he really care for you and he'll do anything to keep you two together always and forever and to show you that he put alot of faith in you and love you for who you are. i have a girlfriend and she tells me she loves me too and i reply back to that also.
My partner of one year hasn't said it yet. He shows it all the time though, and I can see and feel it.
I used to be with this guy for 5 years that would tell me ALL the time, over the top and to me they just became words he said - his actions told me otherwise.
I prefer things the way they are now!
I freaking ADORE my soon to be hubby. ADORE ADORE ADORE... we sing to each other. We hardly even have to think abou tit and when one leaves the room or goes somewhere we always say ';I love you,'; but it isnt routine or mechanical. sometimes its like ';HEY YOU...(pause) love you mostest!'; He even does that around his friends... ';Hey baby? I love ya!';
my boyfriend goes through bursts of 'love'.
he'll say it every 2 seconds sometimes.
and then won't say it again for awhile.
he does say it alot everyday though. :)
you're lucky you have such a loving hubby!
My husband tells me several times a day that he loves me. He also tells my son that. And we tell him the same. It really makes a difference, i think.
he shows it every day..he says it when he HAS to lol..my boy isnt one for alot of words and mushiness, but I know when he brings home a cupcake, or a book Ive wanted, hes been thinking about me :)
About 2-3 times a day when he goes to work. when we not together he calls me and before we hang up he tells me he loves me and when we go to sleep. We tell eachother we love eachother alot!
Every day. :) Along with hugs and kisses, that I consider to be very important, as you never know when it will be your last.
not very frequently right now. she is prego and goes through massive mood swings. one day she is all over me, the next she is not in the mood for lovings
At some point everyday he says ';Have I told you I love you today Ms. Anna';? I say NO %26amp; pout a little %26amp; then he smothers me to make up for it LOL!
All the time moro mou,just like I do you.
Quite often but it took some time. haha
That is great your husband is expressing his love to you!
My husband tells me I love you morning, noon and nite.... We must say we love each other at least 20 times a day!!!
Every night ~__~
My fiance tells me how pretty I am and how much he loves me about, oh, 20 times a day? He's a sweety.
Especially at night. Giggity Giggity Goo!
He does say it but only if i say to him 1st.
Multiple times a day.
be happy with him. r not u? why do u want to know the truth??????????
my wife never loves me ..........................
every morning, afternoon, %26amp; night.
i love him just as much :).
Couple times a day
all day!
yep..
for us everyday is a valentine day... we say Love u :)
buy gifts!! go to movies, have food out..love each other..
Constantly. We tell each other all the time, just out of the blue. Some of our friends and family are amazed by it. I wouldnt have it any other way. How often does your spouse tell you that he/she loves you?
My boyfriend tells me all the time. Multiple times when we talk on the phone, randomly throughout the day he texts me ';i love you'; and he does it when Im feeling really sad and he doesn't know what else to say. The important thing though that I feel is better then saying ';i love you'; is showing a person you love them. It really shows they mean it. He does this through being there for me through thick and thin, respecting me and doing things for me because he wants to not because I ask him to.
I never hear my mom and dad say it, but they kiss whenever the other comes home from work and they always go out together (movies, dinner) and every now and then I hear them getting it on, which is gross beyond reason but in a twisted way, it makes me happy that they're a healthy couple. They show it so much, I guess they don't have to say it.
thats his way of showing that he really care for you and he'll do anything to keep you two together always and forever and to show you that he put alot of faith in you and love you for who you are. i have a girlfriend and she tells me she loves me too and i reply back to that also.
My partner of one year hasn't said it yet. He shows it all the time though, and I can see and feel it.
I used to be with this guy for 5 years that would tell me ALL the time, over the top and to me they just became words he said - his actions told me otherwise.
I prefer things the way they are now!
I freaking ADORE my soon to be hubby. ADORE ADORE ADORE... we sing to each other. We hardly even have to think abou tit and when one leaves the room or goes somewhere we always say ';I love you,'; but it isnt routine or mechanical. sometimes its like ';HEY YOU...(pause) love you mostest!'; He even does that around his friends... ';Hey baby? I love ya!';
my boyfriend goes through bursts of 'love'.
he'll say it every 2 seconds sometimes.
and then won't say it again for awhile.
he does say it alot everyday though. :)
you're lucky you have such a loving hubby!
My husband tells me several times a day that he loves me. He also tells my son that. And we tell him the same. It really makes a difference, i think.
he shows it every day..he says it when he HAS to lol..my boy isnt one for alot of words and mushiness, but I know when he brings home a cupcake, or a book Ive wanted, hes been thinking about me :)
About 2-3 times a day when he goes to work. when we not together he calls me and before we hang up he tells me he loves me and when we go to sleep. We tell eachother we love eachother alot!
Every day. :) Along with hugs and kisses, that I consider to be very important, as you never know when it will be your last.
not very frequently right now. she is prego and goes through massive mood swings. one day she is all over me, the next she is not in the mood for lovings
At some point everyday he says ';Have I told you I love you today Ms. Anna';? I say NO %26amp; pout a little %26amp; then he smothers me to make up for it LOL!
All the time moro mou,just like I do you.
Quite often but it took some time. haha
That is great your husband is expressing his love to you!
My husband tells me I love you morning, noon and nite.... We must say we love each other at least 20 times a day!!!
Every night ~__~
My fiance tells me how pretty I am and how much he loves me about, oh, 20 times a day? He's a sweety.
Especially at night. Giggity Giggity Goo!
He does say it but only if i say to him 1st.
Multiple times a day.
be happy with him. r not u? why do u want to know the truth??????????
my wife never loves me ..........................
every morning, afternoon, %26amp; night.
i love him just as much :).
Couple times a day
all day!
yep..
for us everyday is a valentine day... we say Love u :)
buy gifts!! go to movies, have food out..love each other..
Can a spouse file for disability on behalf of a spouse?
who has not worked in 10 years has fibromyalgia also has
multyple joint pain recent surgery for incisional hernia repair
has no income or work credits husband has worked to support
family for 24 years they have 2 minor children and one adult 19
who lives @ home but is in college informative answers greatly neededCan a spouse file for disability on behalf of a spouse?
i am guesing you are in the US
Form what I remember she is not eleigobel for SSDI since she hasn't worked in 10 yeras
SHe may be eligible for SSI if your family income is low enough
but--the only way the husband could apply for her is if he was her guardian because she was incompetant--which doens't sound like teh case..
Hecannot file under his name because he is not the one who is disabled
She must file under her own nameCan a spouse file for disability on behalf of a spouse?
only if they are unable to do it themselves
multyple joint pain recent surgery for incisional hernia repair
has no income or work credits husband has worked to support
family for 24 years they have 2 minor children and one adult 19
who lives @ home but is in college informative answers greatly neededCan a spouse file for disability on behalf of a spouse?
i am guesing you are in the US
Form what I remember she is not eleigobel for SSDI since she hasn't worked in 10 yeras
SHe may be eligible for SSI if your family income is low enough
but--the only way the husband could apply for her is if he was her guardian because she was incompetant--which doens't sound like teh case..
Hecannot file under his name because he is not the one who is disabled
She must file under her own nameCan a spouse file for disability on behalf of a spouse?
only if they are unable to do it themselves
What are some concerns and standards for a spouse to strive for regarding care of their spouse's rear?
What are some concerns and standards for a spouse to strive for regarding care of their spouse's rear end or what goes on below the belt line.
This is a serious question. I am thinking this is something that can go overlooked in a marital relationship. The result is possible friction later on down the road in marriage.
If all you can think of is sex then please give a little more explanation. And I am getting at other issues besides sex.What are some concerns and standards for a spouse to strive for regarding care of their spouse's rear?
TAKE CARE OF IT AS IT WAS YOUR OWNWhat are some concerns and standards for a spouse to strive for regarding care of their spouse's rear?
can you give a little more detail? I'm really not understanding your questioin.
What are you trying to ask? I don't understand the question. Why don't you rephrase it and dispense with the euphemisms?
Are you sure this isn't an automotive question?
Don't speak in code tell us specifically what your question is then we can answer it.
Are you asking if the spouse shaves the hair below the belt line? Or what the heck!
Not sure what you're asking here. Everyone should be responsible for care of their own rear end and anything else below the belt line. By marriage age a person should be able to care for their own, um, parts.
Yes, additional ';comments'; would help make the question more clear.
Your girl isn't washing her behind??? Menstrual???
It's vague but I personally wouldn't be with anyone with bad hygiene. Just me though.
Your question is not real clear, so I'm going to assume what you are asking...
All I can offer is info for a book that is for married couples only, showing the Christian perspective of both the psychological and physiological aspects in intimacy.
Beyond sex??? Can you please explain specifically where you are going?glitter eyeshadow eye color
This is a serious question. I am thinking this is something that can go overlooked in a marital relationship. The result is possible friction later on down the road in marriage.
If all you can think of is sex then please give a little more explanation. And I am getting at other issues besides sex.What are some concerns and standards for a spouse to strive for regarding care of their spouse's rear?
TAKE CARE OF IT AS IT WAS YOUR OWNWhat are some concerns and standards for a spouse to strive for regarding care of their spouse's rear?
can you give a little more detail? I'm really not understanding your questioin.
What are you trying to ask? I don't understand the question. Why don't you rephrase it and dispense with the euphemisms?
Are you sure this isn't an automotive question?
Don't speak in code tell us specifically what your question is then we can answer it.
Are you asking if the spouse shaves the hair below the belt line? Or what the heck!
Not sure what you're asking here. Everyone should be responsible for care of their own rear end and anything else below the belt line. By marriage age a person should be able to care for their own, um, parts.
Yes, additional ';comments'; would help make the question more clear.
Your girl isn't washing her behind??? Menstrual???
It's vague but I personally wouldn't be with anyone with bad hygiene. Just me though.
Your question is not real clear, so I'm going to assume what you are asking...
All I can offer is info for a book that is for married couples only, showing the Christian perspective of both the psychological and physiological aspects in intimacy.
Beyond sex??? Can you please explain specifically where you are going?
I am a us citizen and married to a forign spouse how do i do my taxes when my wife does not have a SSN?
Everytime i try and do my taxes i can never do it cause my wife does not have a SSN cause shes a forign spouse and i can not do my taxes????I am a us citizen and married to a forign spouse how do i do my taxes when my wife does not have a SSN?
You have TWO options:
1) MFJ: Married Filing Jointly. Follow the other advice here: Form W7 to get an ITIN for your wife. Hire a tax preparer to assist you in getting it right, as it's easy to make a mistake on the form and when you do, it takes forever to rectify it.
Pros: You get MFJ deductions and rates.
Cons: You are taxed on both you and your wife's worldwide income. If she's got a lot of investments, she ain't gonna be happy about it. If she's destitute, it's no skin off her back. If she's somewhere in-between, get advice from a professional tax preparer about whether it makes sense to tax her in the US on her income.
2) MFS: Married Filing Separately. You do not list your wife or include her income on your return.
Pros: No need to get an SSN or ITIN for your wife. File based only on what you earned. Easy-peasy.
Cons: Higher tax rates. Deal with it.
There is a third option if you have children who are either US citizens or US residents and your wife does not meet the definition of a Resident Alien. You can file as Head of Household even if you live with your NRA spouse. The IRS regs on this are quoted below.I am a us citizen and married to a forign spouse how do i do my taxes when my wife does not have a SSN?
Why doesn't your wife have an SSN? She shouldn't be working in the US if she doesn't. Just put you on your taxes, file single.
You pay U.S. taxes. You need to contact a good CPA to determine how to tax your wife.
She must have an alien registration number or wait, is she still in her country? If she is, then you have to use the number she uses to do her taxes. I had to go to H%26amp;R block to do mine last year. I was in the same situation. You have to have a special form. Are you trying to file together? I don't have enough info to give you a straight answer. e-mail me.
If your spuse is not eligible for an SSN she must obtain an ITIN. Form W-7, ';Application for IRS Individual Taxpayer Identification Number,'; is available from this link here:
http://www.irs.gov/pub/irs-pdf/fw7.pdf
She can apply for an ITIN by taking the completed Form W-7 and supporting documents to certain IRS offices or, if you are outside the U.S., to the U.S. consular office. Call your local IRS office to see if it accepts Form W-7 applications. The IRS also designates certain financial institutions, university offices (ask your international studies office) and other federal agencies as ';acceptance agents,'; which you can also apply through.
You have the option of mailing her application to the IRS, but she must include her original passport, driver's license, birth certificate and other things, so this is not prudent for the security of her documents. Submit her Form W-7 early, because it takes a few weeks for the IRS to process your application.
You may call the IRS toll-free at 1-800-829-1040 for information and help in completing your Form W-7 and your tax return, or to check on the status of your application six weeks after submitting Form W-7.
After recieving her ITIN you should be able to file your taxes as married filing jointly barring any exceptions due to any information not provided to me about your situation.
You file a ';W-7'; with your return.
A return prepared this way can not be electronically filed. It must be mailed to a special address in Pennsylvania. The address is included with the instruction for the W-7.
contact the IRS or Soc Sec Administration %26amp; get a taxpayer ID number--it's free; not having one is not an excuse for not filing (in their eyes)
You have TWO options:
1) MFJ: Married Filing Jointly. Follow the other advice here: Form W7 to get an ITIN for your wife. Hire a tax preparer to assist you in getting it right, as it's easy to make a mistake on the form and when you do, it takes forever to rectify it.
Pros: You get MFJ deductions and rates.
Cons: You are taxed on both you and your wife's worldwide income. If she's got a lot of investments, she ain't gonna be happy about it. If she's destitute, it's no skin off her back. If she's somewhere in-between, get advice from a professional tax preparer about whether it makes sense to tax her in the US on her income.
2) MFS: Married Filing Separately. You do not list your wife or include her income on your return.
Pros: No need to get an SSN or ITIN for your wife. File based only on what you earned. Easy-peasy.
Cons: Higher tax rates. Deal with it.
There is a third option if you have children who are either US citizens or US residents and your wife does not meet the definition of a Resident Alien. You can file as Head of Household even if you live with your NRA spouse. The IRS regs on this are quoted below.I am a us citizen and married to a forign spouse how do i do my taxes when my wife does not have a SSN?
Why doesn't your wife have an SSN? She shouldn't be working in the US if she doesn't. Just put you on your taxes, file single.
You pay U.S. taxes. You need to contact a good CPA to determine how to tax your wife.
She must have an alien registration number or wait, is she still in her country? If she is, then you have to use the number she uses to do her taxes. I had to go to H%26amp;R block to do mine last year. I was in the same situation. You have to have a special form. Are you trying to file together? I don't have enough info to give you a straight answer. e-mail me.
If your spuse is not eligible for an SSN she must obtain an ITIN. Form W-7, ';Application for IRS Individual Taxpayer Identification Number,'; is available from this link here:
http://www.irs.gov/pub/irs-pdf/fw7.pdf
She can apply for an ITIN by taking the completed Form W-7 and supporting documents to certain IRS offices or, if you are outside the U.S., to the U.S. consular office. Call your local IRS office to see if it accepts Form W-7 applications. The IRS also designates certain financial institutions, university offices (ask your international studies office) and other federal agencies as ';acceptance agents,'; which you can also apply through.
You have the option of mailing her application to the IRS, but she must include her original passport, driver's license, birth certificate and other things, so this is not prudent for the security of her documents. Submit her Form W-7 early, because it takes a few weeks for the IRS to process your application.
You may call the IRS toll-free at 1-800-829-1040 for information and help in completing your Form W-7 and your tax return, or to check on the status of your application six weeks after submitting Form W-7.
After recieving her ITIN you should be able to file your taxes as married filing jointly barring any exceptions due to any information not provided to me about your situation.
You file a ';W-7'; with your return.
A return prepared this way can not be electronically filed. It must be mailed to a special address in Pennsylvania. The address is included with the instruction for the W-7.
contact the IRS or Soc Sec Administration %26amp; get a taxpayer ID number--it's free; not having one is not an excuse for not filing (in their eyes)
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