Do you and your spouse have the same nationality or are you both originally from different countries?
nationality (question is not about ethnicity)Did you and your spouse grow up in the same country?
We were not born in the same country, or even the same hemisphere. Hubby was born in the Netherlands and immigrated with his family when he was just 11 years old. My parents, who also immigrated from the Netherlands, were here in Australia when they had their family - 8 of us.
We met here, married and have 4 children together. I have never been to Europe, and he has never been back.
Hubby is fluent in both English and Dutch, but I only speak English.Did you and your spouse grow up in the same country?
I was born and raised in N.E. Ohio in the USA,
My wife was born and grew up in the Ukraine ,
we are both latinos...i grew up in the states, he grew up in mexico.
I'm English and he's Korean. I moved to Korea to be with him.
no we grew up in different countries
I don't know! I haven't found her yet!
no we borught up in two diffrent countries
No we didn't. He came here when he was 25.
My ex spouse %26amp; I are both American
Wednesday, November 23, 2011
Do you love your dog more than you love your spouse?
An incident today at the neighbor's place got me thinking :)
Just curious.Do you love your dog more than you love your spouse?
More than my ex spouse?
Yes.Do you love your dog more than you love your spouse?
no
yespimple cure the bees
Just curious.Do you love your dog more than you love your spouse?
More than my ex spouse?
Yes.Do you love your dog more than you love your spouse?
no
yes
If a wife find the needs to attach to her spouse for 24 hrs, wants to know everything he does.?
Is this obsession or love. What is the best way to distinguish the two?If a wife find the needs to attach to her spouse for 24 hrs, wants to know everything he does.?
She is insecure and needs to control her husband by being a part of his life 24/7. It's EXTREMELY unhealthy and will be a major factor in their eventual breakup.
The difference between the two is that love feels good, but obsession/insecurity feels bad.If a wife find the needs to attach to her spouse for 24 hrs, wants to know everything he does.?
Why on earth would anyone want to attach to anyone 24/7?
There must be some sort of insecurity or jealousy issue.
I would say either obcession or a huge lack of trust.
Love can be obcessive.
I think he is very insecure.
Get couples counseling.
Check in with him ocassionally.
Gosh you don't want to live like this. I did and it just about destroyed my spirit %26amp; soul
someting has her feeling insecure
simply there isn't trust, you might not trust you man.
or lately something isn't feeling right to you.
It's an obsession borne from insecurity. You will never win. You're not actually married to her, are you?
You have lost her trust. Trust once lost is hard to recover. Counseling should help but open and honest communications between the both of you would be recommended. You see it as obsessing, she sees it as betrayal. She has a right to be hurt and probably feels that you will do it again if given the chance. You will have to work very hard to regain her trust.
She is insecure and needs to control her husband by being a part of his life 24/7. It's EXTREMELY unhealthy and will be a major factor in their eventual breakup.
The difference between the two is that love feels good, but obsession/insecurity feels bad.If a wife find the needs to attach to her spouse for 24 hrs, wants to know everything he does.?
Why on earth would anyone want to attach to anyone 24/7?
There must be some sort of insecurity or jealousy issue.
I would say either obcession or a huge lack of trust.
Love can be obcessive.
I think he is very insecure.
Get couples counseling.
Check in with him ocassionally.
Gosh you don't want to live like this. I did and it just about destroyed my spirit %26amp; soul
someting has her feeling insecure
simply there isn't trust, you might not trust you man.
or lately something isn't feeling right to you.
It's an obsession borne from insecurity. You will never win. You're not actually married to her, are you?
You have lost her trust. Trust once lost is hard to recover. Counseling should help but open and honest communications between the both of you would be recommended. You see it as obsessing, she sees it as betrayal. She has a right to be hurt and probably feels that you will do it again if given the chance. You will have to work very hard to regain her trust.
Petition for Alien Relative:Permanent resident filling for a spouse?
How long will it takes if a permanent resident or US citizen spouse files I-130 for his/her spouse? My cousin is a permanent resident and his wife is in F-1 visa. He has to wait 2 more years to become a US citizen. Is it a good idea if he files I-130 for his wife while he is a permanent resident and since he only has two more years left to become a US citizen or should he wait until he become a US citizen to process I-130 for his wife?Petition for Alien Relative:Permanent resident filling for a spouse?
For a permanent resident petitioning a spouse the wait for a visa is between 5 and 6 years, except if the spouse is in Mexico where the wait is 8 years.
He can file now. When he has his citizenship he should notify USCIS and they will upgrade his petition from F2A to IR-1 and then there will be no wait.
For a permanent resident petitioning a spouse the wait for a visa is between 5 and 6 years, except if the spouse is in Mexico where the wait is 8 years.
He can file now. When he has his citizenship he should notify USCIS and they will upgrade his petition from F2A to IR-1 and then there will be no wait.
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
Would a candidates spouse affect your vote?
this is a conundrum for libs. you can't ignore obamas wife while hanging onto every word uttered by bill.Would a candidates spouse affect your vote?
Absolutely. Hillary is wearing her husbands suits, Slick is becoming her way. If any Republican had brought religion into the race like Michelle Obama did, they would have been crucified. The liberal media ignored it, Rush Limbaugh pointed it out.
She convinced me today to vote Republican. I don't care who is the candidate. I'm an Independent, the Democrats lost me. I'm also a senior citizen.Would a candidates spouse affect your vote?
Only if they were an embarrassment.
Sure it would, that is their spouse and they chose a life with that person. For me the answer is yes. It all matters.
WHAT A COLOSSAL MESS THEY HAVE ON THERE HANDS.
Only if the spouse were Bill Clinton....
In a heartbeat - especially if it is Bill. Of course I'm not liberal so it doesn't impact my decision
Yes, you better believe it would.
Not only their spouse. I also look at their pets, clothing, automobiles, and favorite color.
It will if it means Billy Boy getting back into the White House
The fact that Bill Clinton is our former president is undoubtedly effecting people's views of Hillary (be they positive or negative.) Otherwise, it is the job of the candidates' wives to represent them properly. I would worry about questionable behavior of a spouse, seeing as that candidate chose that person to be their partner for life. They are two different individuals, but a person's spouse can tell you a lot about a person.
None, I think McCain's wife speaks quite well!
I really don't pay attention to the others anymore...
No.
If there is anyone out there that is foolish enough to base their vote on someones spouse, they should forfeit the right to vote.
This discussion reminds me of some of the comments that were circulating when Bill was running. . .specifically, he had made promises that he did not bother to keep, and there were people who commented, something to the effect, ';Character does not matter, it is the issues that count.';
Once again, for someone to make a statement that foolish clearly indicates that the person should forfeit the right to vote for the remainder of their life.
The privilege of voting for who we want to govern our country is a rare and hard won right. For someone to squander a vote on something so petty and inconsequential is absurd.
An interesting observation can be made at this point about Obama. . . he really does not spell out what his plan is for change. He just keeps parroting that he stands for change. Now I will agree, the man is an excellent speaker, and very charismatic, but perhaps someone could provide any legislative successes the man has had? He seems to be all talk and no ';walk.';
Hope this helps. .
Absolutely. Hillary is wearing her husbands suits, Slick is becoming her way. If any Republican had brought religion into the race like Michelle Obama did, they would have been crucified. The liberal media ignored it, Rush Limbaugh pointed it out.
She convinced me today to vote Republican. I don't care who is the candidate. I'm an Independent, the Democrats lost me. I'm also a senior citizen.Would a candidates spouse affect your vote?
Only if they were an embarrassment.
Sure it would, that is their spouse and they chose a life with that person. For me the answer is yes. It all matters.
WHAT A COLOSSAL MESS THEY HAVE ON THERE HANDS.
Only if the spouse were Bill Clinton....
In a heartbeat - especially if it is Bill. Of course I'm not liberal so it doesn't impact my decision
Yes, you better believe it would.
Not only their spouse. I also look at their pets, clothing, automobiles, and favorite color.
It will if it means Billy Boy getting back into the White House
The fact that Bill Clinton is our former president is undoubtedly effecting people's views of Hillary (be they positive or negative.) Otherwise, it is the job of the candidates' wives to represent them properly. I would worry about questionable behavior of a spouse, seeing as that candidate chose that person to be their partner for life. They are two different individuals, but a person's spouse can tell you a lot about a person.
None, I think McCain's wife speaks quite well!
I really don't pay attention to the others anymore...
No.
If there is anyone out there that is foolish enough to base their vote on someones spouse, they should forfeit the right to vote.
This discussion reminds me of some of the comments that were circulating when Bill was running. . .specifically, he had made promises that he did not bother to keep, and there were people who commented, something to the effect, ';Character does not matter, it is the issues that count.';
Once again, for someone to make a statement that foolish clearly indicates that the person should forfeit the right to vote for the remainder of their life.
The privilege of voting for who we want to govern our country is a rare and hard won right. For someone to squander a vote on something so petty and inconsequential is absurd.
An interesting observation can be made at this point about Obama. . . he really does not spell out what his plan is for change. He just keeps parroting that he stands for change. Now I will agree, the man is an excellent speaker, and very charismatic, but perhaps someone could provide any legislative successes the man has had? He seems to be all talk and no ';walk.';
Hope this helps. .
What are the best tips for handling the angry spouse?
GIVE SMILE TO HIM. I TRIED SO MANY TIMES AND IT WORKS.What are the best tips for handling the angry spouse?
Angry Spouse ? Does this mean they are having a bad day and need time to cool down or if I don't shut up I am getting a punch in the face ?
If they need space to cool down then give it. When they cool down they will come to you and then you can talk it out. JUst because one of you are ready to talk doesnt mean the other is .
If you feel you would be bodily harmed for anything you said GET OUT. No person should ever lay a hand on you for expressing an opinion. What are the best tips for handling the angry spouse?
role of wife in subciding the anger of spouse is as equal of water to fire.
no provocations.
do not cutshort them when they talk and reply.
listen carefully without emotions.
tell your point only when anger is subsided.
create a good atmosphere.
find out what irritates him
ask him what is his problem with you or him or at his office at a more peaceful time.
dont you have issues.
is that bothering you both
is presence of somebody irritates him
does he have a good sleep.otherwise contact doctor to get a good sleeping pill.sleeplessness breeds anger.
fear is the root cause of anger.find out what is his fear.
is he very weak physically.get him a good tonic.
Both of you have to see your mistakes ... not just you but she as well ... you try to do your best and she has to correct herself and transform into a better person ... patience and long temper ... if there's only one party doing the work then it won't last ... both of you must work hard and get over this matter ... hope the best for you
depends on wether the angry spouse is ';he'; or ';she'; ! if i was the angry spouse: hug me, hold me tight, kiss me, tell me that you love me ...
keep arguments for later, when i have cooled down.
Dear if you got the right answer, kindly do publish it in the newspaper - as the whole world is looking forward for the solution.
Don't respond to her anger or engage in a confrontation her is trying to get you involved in. Be sincere and calm in your response. As the old saying goes, “kill them with kindness” (not literally of course!)
Just pretend you don't hear what he/she is saying. Give no response to any arguing that goes on, try to breath and relax yourself.It will work.
A spouse means nothing if you talk of anger.
Husband anger is different than Wife anger so please specify.
You let them vent and then give them space for a bit, then you talk about it. Sometimes just a kind word will smooth things out.
Do not ignoe problems they just get worse.
Hope this helped . Your friend Sugar bug
patience and compromising.
just agree
keeping quiet for a change. fl
to be blind and deaf and dumb
just give him smile and take care of her with u r heart it works
Angry Spouse ? Does this mean they are having a bad day and need time to cool down or if I don't shut up I am getting a punch in the face ?
If they need space to cool down then give it. When they cool down they will come to you and then you can talk it out. JUst because one of you are ready to talk doesnt mean the other is .
If you feel you would be bodily harmed for anything you said GET OUT. No person should ever lay a hand on you for expressing an opinion. What are the best tips for handling the angry spouse?
role of wife in subciding the anger of spouse is as equal of water to fire.
no provocations.
do not cutshort them when they talk and reply.
listen carefully without emotions.
tell your point only when anger is subsided.
create a good atmosphere.
find out what irritates him
ask him what is his problem with you or him or at his office at a more peaceful time.
dont you have issues.
is that bothering you both
is presence of somebody irritates him
does he have a good sleep.otherwise contact doctor to get a good sleeping pill.sleeplessness breeds anger.
fear is the root cause of anger.find out what is his fear.
is he very weak physically.get him a good tonic.
Both of you have to see your mistakes ... not just you but she as well ... you try to do your best and she has to correct herself and transform into a better person ... patience and long temper ... if there's only one party doing the work then it won't last ... both of you must work hard and get over this matter ... hope the best for you
depends on wether the angry spouse is ';he'; or ';she'; ! if i was the angry spouse: hug me, hold me tight, kiss me, tell me that you love me ...
keep arguments for later, when i have cooled down.
Dear if you got the right answer, kindly do publish it in the newspaper - as the whole world is looking forward for the solution.
Don't respond to her anger or engage in a confrontation her is trying to get you involved in. Be sincere and calm in your response. As the old saying goes, “kill them with kindness” (not literally of course!)
Just pretend you don't hear what he/she is saying. Give no response to any arguing that goes on, try to breath and relax yourself.It will work.
A spouse means nothing if you talk of anger.
Husband anger is different than Wife anger so please specify.
You let them vent and then give them space for a bit, then you talk about it. Sometimes just a kind word will smooth things out.
Do not ignoe problems they just get worse.
Hope this helped . Your friend Sugar bug
patience and compromising.
just agree
keeping quiet for a change. fl
to be blind and deaf and dumb
just give him smile and take care of her with u r heart it works
Do you perform your normal shower routine when your spouse is in the room?
No, I feel rushed and well, some things I'd rather take care of without an audience. Plus I get little time to myself at home - husband, toddlers - so I want to have a little bit of private time. Though I do rush when he is there. Oh and he gets so pissed if I fart in the shower - true story.Do you perform your normal shower routine when your spouse is in the room?
Nope- I like my private time to get cleaned and ready.
If he's in there it's not going to be a ';normal'; shower routine.
Nudge, nudge, wink, wink....Do you perform your normal shower routine when your spouse is in the room?
Yes.
I still urinate in the shower.
he's not allowed in the bathroom while I'm bathing
and vise versa
we allow privacy for the other person
No, I make it look more sexy.
No
Nope- I like my private time to get cleaned and ready.
If he's in there it's not going to be a ';normal'; shower routine.
Nudge, nudge, wink, wink....Do you perform your normal shower routine when your spouse is in the room?
Yes.
I still urinate in the shower.
he's not allowed in the bathroom while I'm bathing
and vise versa
we allow privacy for the other person
No, I make it look more sexy.
No
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