Tuesday, August 24, 2010

What are the best tips for handling the angry spouse?

GIVE SMILE TO HIM. I TRIED SO MANY TIMES AND IT WORKS.What are the best tips for handling the angry spouse?
Angry Spouse ? Does this mean they are having a bad day and need time to cool down or if I don't shut up I am getting a punch in the face ?





If they need space to cool down then give it. When they cool down they will come to you and then you can talk it out. JUst because one of you are ready to talk doesnt mean the other is .





If you feel you would be bodily harmed for anything you said GET OUT. No person should ever lay a hand on you for expressing an opinion. What are the best tips for handling the angry spouse?
role of wife in subciding the anger of spouse is as equal of water to fire.


no provocations.


do not cutshort them when they talk and reply.


listen carefully without emotions.


tell your point only when anger is subsided.


create a good atmosphere.


find out what irritates him


ask him what is his problem with you or him or at his office at a more peaceful time.


dont you have issues.


is that bothering you both


is presence of somebody irritates him


does he have a good sleep.otherwise contact doctor to get a good sleeping pill.sleeplessness breeds anger.


fear is the root cause of anger.find out what is his fear.


is he very weak physically.get him a good tonic.
Both of you have to see your mistakes ... not just you but she as well ... you try to do your best and she has to correct herself and transform into a better person ... patience and long temper ... if there's only one party doing the work then it won't last ... both of you must work hard and get over this matter ... hope the best for you
depends on wether the angry spouse is ';he'; or ';she'; ! if i was the angry spouse: hug me, hold me tight, kiss me, tell me that you love me ...





keep arguments for later, when i have cooled down.
Dear if you got the right answer, kindly do publish it in the newspaper - as the whole world is looking forward for the solution.
Don't respond to her anger or engage in a confrontation her is trying to get you involved in. Be sincere and calm in your response. As the old saying goes, “kill them with kindness” (not literally of course!)
Just pretend you don't hear what he/she is saying. Give no response to any arguing that goes on, try to breath and relax yourself.It will work.
A spouse means nothing if you talk of anger.


Husband anger is different than Wife anger so please specify.
You let them vent and then give them space for a bit, then you talk about it. Sometimes just a kind word will smooth things out.


Do not ignoe problems they just get worse.


Hope this helped . Your friend Sugar bug
patience and compromising.
just agree
keeping quiet for a change. fl
to be blind and deaf and dumb
just give him smile and take care of her with u r heart it works

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