If you cheated on your spouse and never told them, do you feel guilty?

and after you told them, did the guilt go away?





My wife cheated and I wanted to know if she still feels guilty, or if the guilt mostly went away after she told me the truth.If you cheated on your spouse and never told them, do you feel guilty?
I kissed a man once... and felt tremendous guilt about it, and even morre guilt after I came clean, but at least I know I could never actually have an affair.If you cheated on your spouse and never told them, do you feel guilty?
Well I could never be not to tell them cause the guilt would eat me up. this is why I just won't cheat ever...it's really not worth all the pain that it causes. More than likely your wife still feels guilty. By telling you she was being honest and hoping this was something you could work through in which cause you could never forgive her and move on if she never told you. I think you should talk to her about but make sure it's in a calm matter. I would think that it's something that you would always feel guilty about even if the other person forgave me and we moved forward together I don't think that I could ever truly forgive myself.
I cheated many times and never felt guilty because I don't think cheating is wrong as long as it stays physical and not emotional. I think is a little naughty but doesn't harm anyone.





I think telling is the real problem, because that will really hurt the partner and its very selfish because people only tell for them to feel better and don't care about their partner feelings.
people with no heart think if admitting to their spouse makes it better like they replenished themselves but really i think it makes the situation worse for them...cause they know what they did was wrong and then for admitting to it they worry the other partner could do it at any time to get back..


so i'm sure you're wife in the back of her dirty mind is thinking about what if you did it or what if you are and then she begins to be insecure with herself therefore creating problems...
Only your wife would know that. If she cheated, she's probably not the type to hang on to guilt. Cheating involves a certain lack of morality and she could have just moved on knowing that she still has you. I seriously hope you guys get some counseling.


Don't let her rush you to ';get over'; it. It will take time, if ever, to get past this. Good luck.
That is a question that only your wife can answer. If you never mention her cheating, she may think you really forgave her and not have to keep it in her mind. If you bring it up every time your both in an argument than my guess is it is still on her mind. Do your self a favor and talk about it with her.
Instead of cheating, I told my husband how he made me want to do just that, and things got a lot better for a long time. Men and Women don't cheat. People who still have a lot of growing up to do and are too cowardly to face the truth/confrontation, do.
Guilt is different for each person. This is really a question only your wife can answer. Perhaps marriage counseling would be the only way for you to really understand what she is feeling and also give you a chance to express your concerns.
If you believe that she was truly sorry and felt bad and wanted to work things out with you then yeah, I'm sure she feels guilty for almost ruining her marriage.
she has probably lost most of the guilt now that you know,but if she has any respect for you she may have a little guilt about what she did ,



Go cheat on her and see if you feel guilty afterwards.
The guilt should never go away.
I think you would feel guilty regardless of sharing
I think you should ask your wife that!