Friday, August 20, 2010

How do you find a way to still be intimate with your spouse with infants and/or toddlers?

My husband and I have our own ';naughty corner'; in our kitchen away from prying eyes. We sneak a few special moments there whenever we can or if I am being witchy or stressed he tells me to go in the corner for some lip locking. We just started making ';appointments'; after the kids are alseep because we were not getting enough alone time together. We can talk about the ';appointments'; in front o the kids and it has become our private joke. We take advantage of whenever they are asleep and it's usually in not in our bedroom since we co-sleep. So, location change makes things interesting.How do you find a way to still be intimate with your spouse with infants and/or toddlers?
My son is 5 weeks old and so far, we've just waited until he's asleep. I know that won't last for much longer when he's constantly awake, but so far it's worked.How do you find a way to still be intimate with your spouse with infants and/or toddlers?
They gotta sleep sometime or GRANDMA
You have to make time for you and your spouse just as much of a priority as taking care of the kids. And make the most of those random moments when the kids are occupied. So if the toddler is napping, and the baby is sleeping, have a quickie!
we will sneak in a few things here or there, if they are in one room will will kiss and make out for a few min.


if the baby is napping and my 4 y/o is on noggin.com or playing good, then we can sneak in a quicky.


we usually save the good stuff for after they go to bed though, but with a 9 month old and 4 year old around most nights i'm to tired! but once i get into it it is well worth it.


just try giving each other hugs and kisses through out the day will help
My twins are eight and I still have a hard time finding the time and a way without someone barging in because they had a bad dream, or they have to pee and managed to lock themselves out of the bathroom, or the tree in the back yard is making scary noises.





When they were infants and toddlers was the easiest......get creative........it doesn't have to be night time to be intimate.
Take advantage when they are asleep! Put the dishes off till tomorrow and the laundry to get that moment with your spouse!

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