Friday, August 20, 2010

How Do you treat your spouse worse than strangers?

Think about this. Do you treat strangers better than you do your spouse at times? ListHow Do you treat your spouse worse than strangers?
Yes. You can treat your spouse worse than strangers you don't know, actually, worse than your worse enemy.





I don't need to think about this to answer your question. Is pretty simple and can happen for many reasons, they all come to a botle neck that is called emotional/verbal or phisical abuse.





What you need to treat a spouse worse than you treat a stranger is first: an abuser, and also you need a victim. Combine these 2 and you will get the abuse happen, and you will see how one treats his/her spouse worse than stranger.





If the abuse keeps happening then that's the perfect relationship, because they have found each other, and none of the two is going to leave.





If what we named as the victim is not a victim, it doesn't matter what is going to happen, but the no-victim is going to leave and wont ever stay in that relationship.





The abuser once the victim leaves, will open her eyes a little bit and will promise changes. The victim will end up going back for a second or third round.





Then later if the victim has been proven to not to be a victim, wont ever be there again, not only that, will be able to spot abusers at the distance and next time is in a relationship, it will barely take a little sign of controlling / abuse, to have this person leave.





If the victim for other reason is left single and finds someone else, most likely will fall in love with another abuser (or haven't you heard: ';I don't know why my friend keeps finding that kind of boyfriends';?).





If you are being treated worse than strangers by your spouse, you are being abused. Ask yourself, are you or not a victim?, will you keep or not with that?. Stay or leave.





I would leave. go to www.drirene.com for more information about verbal/emotional abuse.How Do you treat your spouse worse than strangers?
I don't treat my spouse worse than strangers; but I have said the same thing to my girls.....would you treat a stranger like that, then don't treat your sister and I like that; we are the ones who love you no matter what....
my husband treats me worst than he treats strangers and I don't understand why
LOL sorry hon. Some spouses don't deserve the great spouse


there will be a day that comes they will regret.
My spouse treated me worse than he treated


strangers.





He was physically abusive and otherwise so


but he did not do that to other people because


he would not have gotten away with it with them.

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