My babies dad cheated me! I COULDN'T forgive him. The reason being is he didnt just cheat me, he cheated his son. He would go out with the other b!+cH and then come and hold my son and kiss him and expect me to take care of him. I did forgive him 2 years later but I didn't get back with him. Until this day he asks for forgivness and wants to try again but I can forgive but I cant forget. He also got this other girl prego. (If i went into details about his cheating, you'd probably forgive but not forget) I didn't want my son to grow upo in that kind of enviornment, he could cheat himself and on the other girl, but he CANNOT and WILL NOT cheat us. He did it once he will continue again and again. (regardless the excuse!!!)
Hope I helped.
Good Luck %26amp; keep you head up high!!Would you ever forgive your spouse for cheating on you?
Woah, Mahmood, y'all get naked to hang people?
Kinky!
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You might forgive but will never forget and when they do it once they will do it again. Every time he/she is late home you will think they are cheating again? The choice is yours but when my marriage ended a long time ago I would have taken him back but that was not to be but thinking back it would have been a mistake.
I would forgive them but I would not stay with them. You never forget what they did and it drives you crazy every time they are late or the phone rings and someone hangs up or they go out with there friends. I could never go through that my whole life wondering if it would happen again.
No matter how much I tried I don't think I truly ever forgave. But I also know I wouldn't leave him either even though I always said I would. Too much is invested in a marriage and family to throw it away for a mistake. If he got caught again I would walk because I couldn't live with the pain I would feel. Too many women are very quick to say they would leave but most rarely do. It's a lot easier said than done and people should not be so quick to judge others. Each situation is unique.
Exactly what jess said. Of course I could forgive him. Eventually, over time. I'm not sure how much time it would take. Probably years.
But there is no way I could stay married to him. The emotional trauma of trying to make it work with a guy like that would probably give me heart problems. Plus, then you have to worry about STD's. That's too concrete a thing to ignore.
Before I got married, my answer was always no. But now that I'm married I really don't know what I would do. I guess it would depend on the situation...I don't believe that you can make someone cheat, but I do believe that marriage is alot of work and anything can happen during one. I pray that I never am truly faced with this type of issue.
No. Why did they put themselves in the situation for something like that to happen anyway. Rape of a man, unheard of. Rape of a woman, is a different subject altogether.
I LIKE THE ANSWER ABOUT IRAN ! THAT WAS FUNNY ! IT'S DOES'NT MATTER Y THE GUY CHEETS . THE THOUGHT WILL ALWAYS BE THERE THAT HE DID IT . BUT HONESTLY MOST GUYS CHEET . I'VE BEEN MARRIED 3 TIMES AN I'VE DATED ALOT AN EVERY ONE OF THEM CHEETED ON ME .
If rape wasn't an excuse but the truth -- yes I would
Anything else -- no I wouldn't. I don't have the forgiving capabilities and we both would be miserable. I would end it.
People are not perfect. We make mistakes every day. Some of them we regret for the rest of our lives.
You just have to be smart enough not to over react yet still filter out the BS.
if i was given the truth
';yes i acted in the heat of the moment';
mayyyybbbeee but they wouldn't get off easy.
Here in Iran, anyone convicted of cheating, we hang them while naked.
It depends.
Never in a million years.
no i would not forgive him
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