Is it normal to feel like you don't love your spouse anymore but the next day you're inlove again?

what do you do when you get this fall out of love feeling?Is it normal to feel like you don't love your spouse anymore but the next day you're inlove again?
perfectly normal.





for a crazy-as-a-rat-in-a-tin-shithouse psycho.








love = commitment, NOT emotion.Is it normal to feel like you don't love your spouse anymore but the next day you're inlove again?
If you really love someone, you don't fall out of love with them. I am divorced from a man that was abusive, but I still love him, but don't want to be around this man and be treated the way he treated me. What you are feeling is disappointment that things are not going your way and the next day things are going better and you are getting the attention you need. I guess now is the time to find out what love is really about, and to learn to work through all the problems that arise in a mature manner, but don't blame any of it on love. Marriage is hard and if you love someone enough all of it becomes easy.
It's called the facts of life, Every one has days like that. When I have days like that I get out cards he sent or the romantic things he did and remember the reasons I married him
All relationships go on a roller coaster like path. There will be days or periods where it's hard enough just to like each other, depending on what's going on, if there are problems or stress, and then you'll go through a period of time where it feels like you're on top of the world and can't get enough of each other and you feel like you're falling all over again. And up and down it goes.





First figure out why you have that feeling - are you bored?? Have things been stressful and you haven't been spending quality time together, etc, etc. And then fix it. If you're bored because you don't do things anymore - start making plans. If you're stressed - start doing cheap, easy things to help both of you. If you're not spending much time together - make the time you do have, really count.





Also need to figure out if you really aren't feeling in love anymore - or if it's just the passion/excitement gone. On those days could you care less if he walked out the door? Want him to leave? Find him unattractive??





Find out what exactly you're feeling - and then figure out why, and work on it.