Why would someone's spouse be short and hateful while on the phone with them from work, but not while at home?

maybe be stressed or busy. my husband is really short and quick to get off the phone with me when he's at work, and he works with all men that know me so i know he's not trying to hide anything. he's just busy and doesnt want to be talking on the phone while he's getting paid. its no big dealWhy would someone's spouse be short and hateful while on the phone with them from work, but not while at home?
Maybe they sound hateful, but in fact they aren't. Come on, they're busy with their work! That's why they want to keep phone conversations as short and brief as possible. They're also probably having an important professional conversation at work. That is why one should only call their spouse at work if it's something important or urgent, and not frequently. I mean, they will return home at the end of the day, and things will be back to normal as they'll be in a relaxed mood, and you can talk all you want!


Some people are trying to provoke you by suggesting that your spouse is probably trying to impress someone at work, or have a secret gf/bf. No, that is not always the case! Don't consider that possibility at first, unless you have concrete proof.Why would someone's spouse be short and hateful while on the phone with them from work, but not while at home?
You are reading the 'hateful' into it possibly. Your spouse is AT WORK and may be unable to talk to you. My husband has his 'work voice' and often seems 'short' on the phone. He has told me he is either trying to keep the conversation private or in the middle of something and distracted. sometimes he says - 'gotta go' or 'let me call you later' and I know something has come up and he can't talk. I have learned only to call when I need something concrete, not just to chat. Remember, your spouse is at work.
Maybe they are trying to impress someone at work, bad way to do it but you never know. Or the boss could be right there. You shouldn't really be calling your spouse at work anyway, that in itself is disrespectful unless its an emergency
Some people really hate talking on the phone. I wouldn't describe her as hateful, but curt is more appropriate. My mother is one of them. She is much friendlier in person than she is on the phone.
Maybe the spouse is stressed out and tired of you constantly calling. They will be home later, leave them alone.
Passive-aggressive.
his interesting woman co worker is near him
Maybe they are busy and maybe you are bugging them
there work wife or work husband was close by
I don't know
stress at work
the boss is listening.
cause the boss is looking over their shoulder...............
they are trying to impress someone at work.. dirty trick.





**a love interest at work**