Like if you live together, do you have a 'plan b' if you guys break up, or do you not think about it?Do you have a back up plan if you and your spouse don't work out?
i think that having a basic back up plan is good, who would move out, where would they stay and things like thisDo you have a back up plan if you and your spouse don't work out?
If you are married to someone and you have a ';back up plan'; then you have already doomed the relationship with doubt. When you get married that should take all thought of ever leaving one another and destroying them. The younger generation thinks that marriage is just another relationship that they can dispose of when it gets rocky or when they are unhappy. Have you ever not been selfish and wondered if YOU yourself make your spouse the happiest they can be?
No, you should never have a ';back up'; because it defeats the purpose. If you do then you should never have become married in the first place.
No. I do have a plan for marriage counseling if the times do get tough for us though.
Marriage and relationships need constant work and spending time alone together to do so is my best advice.
Also treating your mate with the same attention you used to land them helps as well. I suggest once a week , you should have a date with them. Even if it is to discuss the grocery bill.
I don't think about it. We're married. That means we're in this for the long haul.
i do, but hate thinking about it
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