this is a conundrum for libs. you can't ignore obamas wife while hanging onto every word uttered by bill.Would a candidates spouse affect your vote?
Absolutely. Hillary is wearing her husbands suits, Slick is becoming her way. If any Republican had brought religion into the race like Michelle Obama did, they would have been crucified. The liberal media ignored it, Rush Limbaugh pointed it out.
She convinced me today to vote Republican. I don't care who is the candidate. I'm an Independent, the Democrats lost me. I'm also a senior citizen.Would a candidates spouse affect your vote?
Only if they were an embarrassment.
Sure it would, that is their spouse and they chose a life with that person. For me the answer is yes. It all matters.
WHAT A COLOSSAL MESS THEY HAVE ON THERE HANDS.
Only if the spouse were Bill Clinton....
In a heartbeat - especially if it is Bill. Of course I'm not liberal so it doesn't impact my decision
Yes, you better believe it would.
Not only their spouse. I also look at their pets, clothing, automobiles, and favorite color.
It will if it means Billy Boy getting back into the White House
The fact that Bill Clinton is our former president is undoubtedly effecting people's views of Hillary (be they positive or negative.) Otherwise, it is the job of the candidates' wives to represent them properly. I would worry about questionable behavior of a spouse, seeing as that candidate chose that person to be their partner for life. They are two different individuals, but a person's spouse can tell you a lot about a person.
None, I think McCain's wife speaks quite well!
I really don't pay attention to the others anymore...
No.
If there is anyone out there that is foolish enough to base their vote on someones spouse, they should forfeit the right to vote.
This discussion reminds me of some of the comments that were circulating when Bill was running. . .specifically, he had made promises that he did not bother to keep, and there were people who commented, something to the effect, ';Character does not matter, it is the issues that count.';
Once again, for someone to make a statement that foolish clearly indicates that the person should forfeit the right to vote for the remainder of their life.
The privilege of voting for who we want to govern our country is a rare and hard won right. For someone to squander a vote on something so petty and inconsequential is absurd.
An interesting observation can be made at this point about Obama. . . he really does not spell out what his plan is for change. He just keeps parroting that he stands for change. Now I will agree, the man is an excellent speaker, and very charismatic, but perhaps someone could provide any legislative successes the man has had? He seems to be all talk and no ';walk.';
Hope this helps. .
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
What are the best tips for handling the angry spouse?
GIVE SMILE TO HIM. I TRIED SO MANY TIMES AND IT WORKS.What are the best tips for handling the angry spouse?
Angry Spouse ? Does this mean they are having a bad day and need time to cool down or if I don't shut up I am getting a punch in the face ?
If they need space to cool down then give it. When they cool down they will come to you and then you can talk it out. JUst because one of you are ready to talk doesnt mean the other is .
If you feel you would be bodily harmed for anything you said GET OUT. No person should ever lay a hand on you for expressing an opinion. What are the best tips for handling the angry spouse?
role of wife in subciding the anger of spouse is as equal of water to fire.
no provocations.
do not cutshort them when they talk and reply.
listen carefully without emotions.
tell your point only when anger is subsided.
create a good atmosphere.
find out what irritates him
ask him what is his problem with you or him or at his office at a more peaceful time.
dont you have issues.
is that bothering you both
is presence of somebody irritates him
does he have a good sleep.otherwise contact doctor to get a good sleeping pill.sleeplessness breeds anger.
fear is the root cause of anger.find out what is his fear.
is he very weak physically.get him a good tonic.
Both of you have to see your mistakes ... not just you but she as well ... you try to do your best and she has to correct herself and transform into a better person ... patience and long temper ... if there's only one party doing the work then it won't last ... both of you must work hard and get over this matter ... hope the best for you
depends on wether the angry spouse is ';he'; or ';she'; ! if i was the angry spouse: hug me, hold me tight, kiss me, tell me that you love me ...
keep arguments for later, when i have cooled down.
Dear if you got the right answer, kindly do publish it in the newspaper - as the whole world is looking forward for the solution.
Don't respond to her anger or engage in a confrontation her is trying to get you involved in. Be sincere and calm in your response. As the old saying goes, “kill them with kindness” (not literally of course!)
Just pretend you don't hear what he/she is saying. Give no response to any arguing that goes on, try to breath and relax yourself.It will work.
A spouse means nothing if you talk of anger.
Husband anger is different than Wife anger so please specify.
You let them vent and then give them space for a bit, then you talk about it. Sometimes just a kind word will smooth things out.
Do not ignoe problems they just get worse.
Hope this helped . Your friend Sugar bug
patience and compromising.
just agree
keeping quiet for a change. fl
to be blind and deaf and dumb
just give him smile and take care of her with u r heart it works
Angry Spouse ? Does this mean they are having a bad day and need time to cool down or if I don't shut up I am getting a punch in the face ?
If they need space to cool down then give it. When they cool down they will come to you and then you can talk it out. JUst because one of you are ready to talk doesnt mean the other is .
If you feel you would be bodily harmed for anything you said GET OUT. No person should ever lay a hand on you for expressing an opinion. What are the best tips for handling the angry spouse?
role of wife in subciding the anger of spouse is as equal of water to fire.
no provocations.
do not cutshort them when they talk and reply.
listen carefully without emotions.
tell your point only when anger is subsided.
create a good atmosphere.
find out what irritates him
ask him what is his problem with you or him or at his office at a more peaceful time.
dont you have issues.
is that bothering you both
is presence of somebody irritates him
does he have a good sleep.otherwise contact doctor to get a good sleeping pill.sleeplessness breeds anger.
fear is the root cause of anger.find out what is his fear.
is he very weak physically.get him a good tonic.
Both of you have to see your mistakes ... not just you but she as well ... you try to do your best and she has to correct herself and transform into a better person ... patience and long temper ... if there's only one party doing the work then it won't last ... both of you must work hard and get over this matter ... hope the best for you
depends on wether the angry spouse is ';he'; or ';she'; ! if i was the angry spouse: hug me, hold me tight, kiss me, tell me that you love me ...
keep arguments for later, when i have cooled down.
Dear if you got the right answer, kindly do publish it in the newspaper - as the whole world is looking forward for the solution.
Don't respond to her anger or engage in a confrontation her is trying to get you involved in. Be sincere and calm in your response. As the old saying goes, “kill them with kindness” (not literally of course!)
Just pretend you don't hear what he/she is saying. Give no response to any arguing that goes on, try to breath and relax yourself.It will work.
A spouse means nothing if you talk of anger.
Husband anger is different than Wife anger so please specify.
You let them vent and then give them space for a bit, then you talk about it. Sometimes just a kind word will smooth things out.
Do not ignoe problems they just get worse.
Hope this helped . Your friend Sugar bug
patience and compromising.
just agree
keeping quiet for a change. fl
to be blind and deaf and dumb
just give him smile and take care of her with u r heart it works
Do you perform your normal shower routine when your spouse is in the room?
No, I feel rushed and well, some things I'd rather take care of without an audience. Plus I get little time to myself at home - husband, toddlers - so I want to have a little bit of private time. Though I do rush when he is there. Oh and he gets so pissed if I fart in the shower - true story.Do you perform your normal shower routine when your spouse is in the room?
Nope- I like my private time to get cleaned and ready.
If he's in there it's not going to be a ';normal'; shower routine.
Nudge, nudge, wink, wink....Do you perform your normal shower routine when your spouse is in the room?
Yes.
I still urinate in the shower.
he's not allowed in the bathroom while I'm bathing
and vise versa
we allow privacy for the other person
No, I make it look more sexy.
No
Nope- I like my private time to get cleaned and ready.
If he's in there it's not going to be a ';normal'; shower routine.
Nudge, nudge, wink, wink....Do you perform your normal shower routine when your spouse is in the room?
Yes.
I still urinate in the shower.
he's not allowed in the bathroom while I'm bathing
and vise versa
we allow privacy for the other person
No, I make it look more sexy.
No
What does Marriage mean to you? Is it a matter of putting yourself first or your spouse?
It means committment. It means sacrificing. It means putting your spouse and children first...in my opinion.*What does Marriage mean to you? Is it a matter of putting yourself first or your spouse?
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What does Marriage mean to you? Is it a matter of putting yourself first or your spouse?
It's putting our family first - we make decisions together to better our relationship and family, not just one or the other.
If you really are putting yourself OR your spouse first then your marriage needs some serious help.
But to answer your question - marriage means to me a partnership where my husband and I work together to strengthen our relationship and bond, raise our children and plan together for a positive future.
marriage to me is about love and wanting to be with no one else for the rest of your life but that person. I don't think it's a decision to be made lightly. I don't think it's about putting anyone first, but just being there for each other and loving one another.
Putting mine and my spouses problems first. Equally as one. One shouldn't come over the other.
Good answer, right:D I think that's more from a female point of view. But most guys I know, traditional guys, feel they should protect and put all their spouse's needs first. That ways cool with me too:) As long as she doesn't take advantage of a good man.
Your spouse of course! Marriage to me means that you want to spend the rest of your life tied to this one person. It's sad that marriges have a 52% of failing in this generation.
It means the two of you have to add up to 100%. Some days it's 25/75, some days 50/50, some days 75/25, etc.
I'm done with putting other people before myself. Next guy I marry better have the same attitude.
To make life easier for eachother but mostly it become harder.
Someday if I decide to get marry !
Marriage to me means putting your spouse first.
Your spouse of course.
to me it means having no money
and i always put myself 1st
I'd put my spouse first ^_^
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What does Marriage mean to you? Is it a matter of putting yourself first or your spouse?
It's putting our family first - we make decisions together to better our relationship and family, not just one or the other.
If you really are putting yourself OR your spouse first then your marriage needs some serious help.
But to answer your question - marriage means to me a partnership where my husband and I work together to strengthen our relationship and bond, raise our children and plan together for a positive future.
marriage to me is about love and wanting to be with no one else for the rest of your life but that person. I don't think it's a decision to be made lightly. I don't think it's about putting anyone first, but just being there for each other and loving one another.
Putting mine and my spouses problems first. Equally as one. One shouldn't come over the other.
Good answer, right:D I think that's more from a female point of view. But most guys I know, traditional guys, feel they should protect and put all their spouse's needs first. That ways cool with me too:) As long as she doesn't take advantage of a good man.
Your spouse of course! Marriage to me means that you want to spend the rest of your life tied to this one person. It's sad that marriges have a 52% of failing in this generation.
It means the two of you have to add up to 100%. Some days it's 25/75, some days 50/50, some days 75/25, etc.
I'm done with putting other people before myself. Next guy I marry better have the same attitude.
To make life easier for eachother but mostly it become harder.
Someday if I decide to get marry !
Marriage to me means putting your spouse first.
Your spouse of course.
to me it means having no money
and i always put myself 1st
I'd put my spouse first ^_^
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Fiance visa vs Spouse visa. Girlfriend living with me in the USA with F1 visa as a stude(no 2year requirement?
So my girlfriend is living with me and we plan to get married next year. She has a one year J-1 visa that expires next June. Should she go back to Russia and I file a Fiance Visa petition here in the USA or should I get married in here(now that she's here) and start the process here via a Spouse visa? She is not subject to the 2-year visa requirement.Fiance visa vs Spouse visa. Girlfriend living with me in the USA with F1 visa as a stude(no 2year requirement?
She doesn't need a visa. Visas are used to enter a country. She's here now.
Just get married. No trick to that.
Then, you file I-130, I-864 and G-325A.
She files I-485, I-131, I-765 and G-325A.
File them ALL at the same time, in the SAME envelope. The total cost to file is $1,365.
She'll get the work permit and travel permit in about 90 days. She'll have her green card in about 6 months.
The forms are here... http://www.uscis.gov/portal/site/uscis/m鈥?/a>
This is called ';concurrent filing.'; She does not leave the USA. As long as the J-1 is good when you file she's 100% fine.Fiance visa vs Spouse visa. Girlfriend living with me in the USA with F1 visa as a stude(no 2year requirement?
Get married here while she is still in status.
She doesn't need a visa. Visas are used to enter a country. She's here now.
Just get married. No trick to that.
Then, you file I-130, I-864 and G-325A.
She files I-485, I-131, I-765 and G-325A.
File them ALL at the same time, in the SAME envelope. The total cost to file is $1,365.
She'll get the work permit and travel permit in about 90 days. She'll have her green card in about 6 months.
The forms are here... http://www.uscis.gov/portal/site/uscis/m鈥?/a>
This is called ';concurrent filing.'; She does not leave the USA. As long as the J-1 is good when you file she's 100% fine.Fiance visa vs Spouse visa. Girlfriend living with me in the USA with F1 visa as a stude(no 2year requirement?
Get married here while she is still in status.
Whats the number one thing you hate about your spouse?
i am wondering what people hate the most about their spouose...also what is the main reason marriages fail?ThanksWhats the number one thing you hate about your spouse?
I hate that he always leaves his dirty clothes in the bathroom floor.Whats the number one thing you hate about your spouse?
One of the Sunday morning televangelists once had that question on his program and my ex (hubby of 20 years at the time) demanded that I listen. The reason marriages fail especially after 20+ years of marriage is because the wife gets tired of doing everything. The women are forced to take on all the chores, mowing included, take care of the house, the kids, cooking , cleaning, working, etc. Who needs a man when you are doing it all?
Also, the lack of sex for the man is not always the reason. I gave and gave and still my ex wasn't satisfied. He demanded getting a second woman in our bedroom and wanted me to give in. I finally left him to go get his ';strange'; that he demanded he needed. He was already cheating, why should I put up with it any more? GO!
For a marriage to succeed, you need at least one person to be able to identify issues and put them into words. You need both people to be 100% committed to working through them, not matter how hard or hurtful the issue is; and you get counselling if you can't do it by yourself. Most marriages fail, I think, because they haven't got the above scenario working for them. Too often people leave the counselling until one has already given up.
What irritates me most about my hubby? He can be soooo unreliable! He forgets, he procrastinates, he is so agreeable he'll say yes automatically without actually thinking about what he's agreeing to. Other than that, he's a top bloke!
the way he farts all the time, yet makes me feel gross because i got my period
they way he tells me i shouldnt wear make up shouldnt look up beauty products then tells me im not lady like enough
the way he talks to me like i am a child
the way he makes me feel bad because he pays for most things even thouh everything i earn i give to him for us yet i am never allowed new clothes etc
the way makes me feel ugly, he never says it, i just feel it.
the way he pressured me into an abortion
the way that i left him found a man who would do anything for me, he comes crawling back said he would change etc wanted the babies but was unsure and now uses that against me..
they way he cheated on me but plays it down and says that im a slut because i once flirted with his friends when i was blind drunk, i apologised to his friend the next day felt terrible
the way he flirts with my friends
the way he never tells me im the most beautifull girl in the world
yet i tell himm he is the most handsome...
**** time for me to get a divorce
The thing that I hate about my spouse right now is that she has been talking with another guy and I know I have $198.90 in overage charges on my cell phone bill. She doesn't seem to have a problem with it she said she will be talking to him when ever and for how ever long she wants they are just friends.
I don't hate anything about my spouse, she is the most wonderful thing that has happened to me since we were married. The main reason I think that marriages don't last is because one of two things- 1. you get married to fast and don't get to know the real person and 2- no communication in the relationship.
I don't hate anything about him... I dislike some of his behaviours but then again, I'm sure he hates some of mine.
If I had to choose one thing that I dislike about him would be how lazy he is... Can't clean up after himself or help more around the house.. It can be frustrating, but I don't hate him for it.
thers a list a long one including worst nightmares yet wanting things to work bad enough and being able to forgive and try to remain sane which at times is hard makes it work ....wanting it and working at it even if the person did horrible things forgiving numerous times a week .
The one thing i hate about my husband is every single morning he gets up,goes into the bathroom and hacks %26amp; gags (LOUDLY) 4 at least 20 mins!22 yrs i've been listening to that!Oh %26amp; his socks! They are always inside out %26amp; in a ball %26amp; they stink terrible!but oh well,i love him.lol
I hate it when she shouts, especially in front of our kids. But I think marriages fail when the two grow apart. This often happens when physical attractiveness is the only glue holding you together.
I cant say there is any one thing i hate but he has his flaws just like anyone else. Marriages fail because people these days don't work hard enough to keep it together.
Marriages fail because many people do not marry because they are in love. Love is generally the last thing on their mind.
No sex for 2 months at a time because the wifey is looking at how other people live and gets depressed.
Her bipolar disorder with pathological lying.
she is mrs freeze and marriages fail becuase when suck at it
My last gf cheated lol
I did not even get to make it to spouse level yet lol
I am free from her evil!
How there is a lack of respect..
lying!
I hate that he always leaves his dirty clothes in the bathroom floor.Whats the number one thing you hate about your spouse?
One of the Sunday morning televangelists once had that question on his program and my ex (hubby of 20 years at the time) demanded that I listen. The reason marriages fail especially after 20+ years of marriage is because the wife gets tired of doing everything. The women are forced to take on all the chores, mowing included, take care of the house, the kids, cooking , cleaning, working, etc. Who needs a man when you are doing it all?
Also, the lack of sex for the man is not always the reason. I gave and gave and still my ex wasn't satisfied. He demanded getting a second woman in our bedroom and wanted me to give in. I finally left him to go get his ';strange'; that he demanded he needed. He was already cheating, why should I put up with it any more? GO!
For a marriage to succeed, you need at least one person to be able to identify issues and put them into words. You need both people to be 100% committed to working through them, not matter how hard or hurtful the issue is; and you get counselling if you can't do it by yourself. Most marriages fail, I think, because they haven't got the above scenario working for them. Too often people leave the counselling until one has already given up.
What irritates me most about my hubby? He can be soooo unreliable! He forgets, he procrastinates, he is so agreeable he'll say yes automatically without actually thinking about what he's agreeing to. Other than that, he's a top bloke!
the way he farts all the time, yet makes me feel gross because i got my period
they way he tells me i shouldnt wear make up shouldnt look up beauty products then tells me im not lady like enough
the way he talks to me like i am a child
the way he makes me feel bad because he pays for most things even thouh everything i earn i give to him for us yet i am never allowed new clothes etc
the way makes me feel ugly, he never says it, i just feel it.
the way he pressured me into an abortion
the way that i left him found a man who would do anything for me, he comes crawling back said he would change etc wanted the babies but was unsure and now uses that against me..
they way he cheated on me but plays it down and says that im a slut because i once flirted with his friends when i was blind drunk, i apologised to his friend the next day felt terrible
the way he flirts with my friends
the way he never tells me im the most beautifull girl in the world
yet i tell himm he is the most handsome...
**** time for me to get a divorce
The thing that I hate about my spouse right now is that she has been talking with another guy and I know I have $198.90 in overage charges on my cell phone bill. She doesn't seem to have a problem with it she said she will be talking to him when ever and for how ever long she wants they are just friends.
I don't hate anything about my spouse, she is the most wonderful thing that has happened to me since we were married. The main reason I think that marriages don't last is because one of two things- 1. you get married to fast and don't get to know the real person and 2- no communication in the relationship.
I don't hate anything about him... I dislike some of his behaviours but then again, I'm sure he hates some of mine.
If I had to choose one thing that I dislike about him would be how lazy he is... Can't clean up after himself or help more around the house.. It can be frustrating, but I don't hate him for it.
thers a list a long one including worst nightmares yet wanting things to work bad enough and being able to forgive and try to remain sane which at times is hard makes it work ....wanting it and working at it even if the person did horrible things forgiving numerous times a week .
The one thing i hate about my husband is every single morning he gets up,goes into the bathroom and hacks %26amp; gags (LOUDLY) 4 at least 20 mins!22 yrs i've been listening to that!Oh %26amp; his socks! They are always inside out %26amp; in a ball %26amp; they stink terrible!but oh well,i love him.lol
I hate it when she shouts, especially in front of our kids. But I think marriages fail when the two grow apart. This often happens when physical attractiveness is the only glue holding you together.
I cant say there is any one thing i hate but he has his flaws just like anyone else. Marriages fail because people these days don't work hard enough to keep it together.
Marriages fail because many people do not marry because they are in love. Love is generally the last thing on their mind.
No sex for 2 months at a time because the wifey is looking at how other people live and gets depressed.
Her bipolar disorder with pathological lying.
she is mrs freeze and marriages fail becuase when suck at it
My last gf cheated lol
I did not even get to make it to spouse level yet lol
I am free from her evil!
How there is a lack of respect..
lying!
Have you done something and wanted forgiveness from your spouse? But if it were in the reverse, you wouldn't?
Have you ever done something to your spouse that you wanted forgiveness for but if it was the other way around, you couldn't forgive your spouse? Why or Why not?Have you done something and wanted forgiveness from your spouse? But if it were in the reverse, you wouldn't?
Well if i have a guys numbr n my fone i wuldnt want my man 2get mad it cuz i no i dnt like the other guy. Bt if my man has a girls numbr n his fone i wuld b mad cuz i no he wuld really like the person.Have you done something and wanted forgiveness from your spouse? But if it were in the reverse, you wouldn't?
No. I can't imagine my spouse doing anything unforgivable anyway, but it's a two-way street. I know I would forgive always, and I know he would too. I'm not into game-playing.
Well if i have a guys numbr n my fone i wuldnt want my man 2get mad it cuz i no i dnt like the other guy. Bt if my man has a girls numbr n his fone i wuld b mad cuz i no he wuld really like the person.Have you done something and wanted forgiveness from your spouse? But if it were in the reverse, you wouldn't?
No. I can't imagine my spouse doing anything unforgivable anyway, but it's a two-way street. I know I would forgive always, and I know he would too. I'm not into game-playing.
Are some people more prone to cheating on a spouse or partner than other people?
I heard that some people actually have a drive towards being sexually unfaithful to someone as opposed to others. I heard it affects boys and girls and some people just like cheating.Are some people more prone to cheating on a spouse or partner than other people?
Yes. Background can play a crucial role. If a person was raised in a loving home with two parents that were always faithful to one another, that person is less likely to cheat. If a person was raised in a home where parents were absent or unfaithful, they may have been brought up to believe it was okay. And morals? What was taught as proper morals? How should people be treated? Background can definitely make one person more prone to cheat than another.Are some people more prone to cheating on a spouse or partner than other people?
Yes usually younger people because they are more sexually active and the gene pool likes to mix things up. (Marraige is an unnatural state). But a person at any age whose partner has become stale or abusive is more susceptible. Novelty is the key, some crave it some don't.
Once a cheater always a cheater. If you are with someone that has cheated before it is only time before they will do it again. I do not know why this is, but it is just common knowledge.
yes, those who actually do it are more prone to it, and those who don't aren't
bipolar types are more prone when in manic stage
Sounds like an excuse to cheat on your spouse.
If they don't take the relationship seriously, then of course they'll cheat. Now it looks like the the shrinks are giving credence that abominable behavior. Our society continues to slide into hell...
I was cheated on and in the back of my mind I want to settle the score.
I've been cheated on but never have I wanted to cheat on my b/f. So I think if depends on what type of person you are. Besides if someone cheats on you, you shouldn't be with them.
Yes. Background can play a crucial role. If a person was raised in a loving home with two parents that were always faithful to one another, that person is less likely to cheat. If a person was raised in a home where parents were absent or unfaithful, they may have been brought up to believe it was okay. And morals? What was taught as proper morals? How should people be treated? Background can definitely make one person more prone to cheat than another.Are some people more prone to cheating on a spouse or partner than other people?
Yes usually younger people because they are more sexually active and the gene pool likes to mix things up. (Marraige is an unnatural state). But a person at any age whose partner has become stale or abusive is more susceptible. Novelty is the key, some crave it some don't.
Once a cheater always a cheater. If you are with someone that has cheated before it is only time before they will do it again. I do not know why this is, but it is just common knowledge.
yes, those who actually do it are more prone to it, and those who don't aren't
bipolar types are more prone when in manic stage
Sounds like an excuse to cheat on your spouse.
If they don't take the relationship seriously, then of course they'll cheat. Now it looks like the the shrinks are giving credence that abominable behavior. Our society continues to slide into hell...
I was cheated on and in the back of my mind I want to settle the score.
I've been cheated on but never have I wanted to cheat on my b/f. So I think if depends on what type of person you are. Besides if someone cheats on you, you shouldn't be with them.
What if a person wanted a divorce from their spouse so they can marry someone else but they wont sign?
the divorce papers what can you do? and how long would you have to be separated before you are considered divorvedWhat if a person wanted a divorce from their spouse so they can marry someone else but they wont sign?
You can be seperated forever....and still be married. You need to file for a divorce, go to court and get it granted.What if a person wanted a divorce from their spouse so they can marry someone else but they wont sign?
Divorce must be agreed upon by both parties. If there is no signature to consent, there will be no valid divorce.
Have to go to court.
divorce court like those tv shows.
You can be seperated forever....and still be married. You need to file for a divorce, go to court and get it granted.What if a person wanted a divorce from their spouse so they can marry someone else but they wont sign?
Divorce must be agreed upon by both parties. If there is no signature to consent, there will be no valid divorce.
Have to go to court.
divorce court like those tv shows.
Have you done something and wanted forgiveness from your spouse? But if it were in the reverse, you wouldn't?
Have you ever done something to your spouse that you wanted forgiveness for but if it was the other way around, you couldn't forgive your spouse? Why or Why not?Have you done something and wanted forgiveness from your spouse? But if it were in the reverse, you wouldn't?
Well if i have a guys numbr n my fone i wuldnt want my man 2get mad it cuz i no i dnt like the other guy. Bt if my man has a girls numbr n his fone i wuld b mad cuz i no he wuld really like the person.Have you done something and wanted forgiveness from your spouse? But if it were in the reverse, you wouldn't?
No. I can't imagine my spouse doing anything unforgivable anyway, but it's a two-way street. I know I would forgive always, and I know he would too. I'm not into game-playing.pimple cure eye pencil
Well if i have a guys numbr n my fone i wuldnt want my man 2get mad it cuz i no i dnt like the other guy. Bt if my man has a girls numbr n his fone i wuld b mad cuz i no he wuld really like the person.Have you done something and wanted forgiveness from your spouse? But if it were in the reverse, you wouldn't?
No. I can't imagine my spouse doing anything unforgivable anyway, but it's a two-way street. I know I would forgive always, and I know he would too. I'm not into game-playing.
Are some people more prone to cheating on a spouse or partner than other people?
I heard that some people actually have a drive towards being sexually unfaithful to someone as opposed to others. I heard it affects boys and girls and some people just like cheating.Are some people more prone to cheating on a spouse or partner than other people?
Yes. Background can play a crucial role. If a person was raised in a loving home with two parents that were always faithful to one another, that person is less likely to cheat. If a person was raised in a home where parents were absent or unfaithful, they may have been brought up to believe it was okay. And morals? What was taught as proper morals? How should people be treated? Background can definitely make one person more prone to cheat than another.Are some people more prone to cheating on a spouse or partner than other people?
Yes usually younger people because they are more sexually active and the gene pool likes to mix things up. (Marraige is an unnatural state). But a person at any age whose partner has become stale or abusive is more susceptible. Novelty is the key, some crave it some don't.
Once a cheater always a cheater. If you are with someone that has cheated before it is only time before they will do it again. I do not know why this is, but it is just common knowledge.
yes, those who actually do it are more prone to it, and those who don't aren't
bipolar types are more prone when in manic stage
Sounds like an excuse to cheat on your spouse.
If they don't take the relationship seriously, then of course they'll cheat. Now it looks like the the shrinks are giving credence that abominable behavior. Our society continues to slide into hell...
I was cheated on and in the back of my mind I want to settle the score.
I've been cheated on but never have I wanted to cheat on my b/f. So I think if depends on what type of person you are. Besides if someone cheats on you, you shouldn't be with them.
Yes. Background can play a crucial role. If a person was raised in a loving home with two parents that were always faithful to one another, that person is less likely to cheat. If a person was raised in a home where parents were absent or unfaithful, they may have been brought up to believe it was okay. And morals? What was taught as proper morals? How should people be treated? Background can definitely make one person more prone to cheat than another.Are some people more prone to cheating on a spouse or partner than other people?
Yes usually younger people because they are more sexually active and the gene pool likes to mix things up. (Marraige is an unnatural state). But a person at any age whose partner has become stale or abusive is more susceptible. Novelty is the key, some crave it some don't.
Once a cheater always a cheater. If you are with someone that has cheated before it is only time before they will do it again. I do not know why this is, but it is just common knowledge.
yes, those who actually do it are more prone to it, and those who don't aren't
bipolar types are more prone when in manic stage
Sounds like an excuse to cheat on your spouse.
If they don't take the relationship seriously, then of course they'll cheat. Now it looks like the the shrinks are giving credence that abominable behavior. Our society continues to slide into hell...
I was cheated on and in the back of my mind I want to settle the score.
I've been cheated on but never have I wanted to cheat on my b/f. So I think if depends on what type of person you are. Besides if someone cheats on you, you shouldn't be with them.
What if a person wanted a divorce from their spouse so they can marry someone else but they wont sign?
the divorce papers what can you do? and how long would you have to be separated before you are considered divorvedWhat if a person wanted a divorce from their spouse so they can marry someone else but they wont sign?
You can be seperated forever....and still be married. You need to file for a divorce, go to court and get it granted.What if a person wanted a divorce from their spouse so they can marry someone else but they wont sign?
Divorce must be agreed upon by both parties. If there is no signature to consent, there will be no valid divorce.
Have to go to court.
divorce court like those tv shows.
You can be seperated forever....and still be married. You need to file for a divorce, go to court and get it granted.What if a person wanted a divorce from their spouse so they can marry someone else but they wont sign?
Divorce must be agreed upon by both parties. If there is no signature to consent, there will be no valid divorce.
Have to go to court.
divorce court like those tv shows.
How has your life changed as being a military spouse? good and bad?
i've answered this question a lot of times...
this is how i explain being a military wife :i sleep alone, i cook for one, i eat alone, i change my oil, i mow my yard, i own a gun (which i know how to use - because i'm alone a lot), our son is a momma's boy, our dogs hate me because i dont spoil them like daddy, i do all the housework, i pay the bills, i pump my gas, i can fix anything, my heart drops everytime someone knocks on my door, i dont even take a shower without my cell phone within arms reach...
i wouldn't have it any other way.
i have a new view on healthcare. people are always ready and willing to help me with anything...
i married my husband b/c i love him - which has nothing to do w/ his career. but being a military wife is a big part of life when you marry a soldier...How has your life changed as being a military spouse? good and bad?
Good - I have a great marriage and financial security. I get to travel and move to areas that I wouldn't have thought to ever live. I have excellent free health care. We have 2 kids that were free (normal births are around $10K without complications).
Bad - We move when we don't want to. Husband isn't home for birthdays, anniversaries, holidays etc. Husband works 50+ hours a week. Stress of raising a family alone when he's deployed.
There are pros and cons to every job/lilfestyle out there. For us the military benefits outweigh the bad. We are almost done. In a few years we will get a check for the rest of his life. I don't know of any other job that you can retire after just 20 years and have all sorts of benefits as well.
Just remember it is a lifestyle and a commitment not meant for everyone. You have to grin and bear it at times even though you may not agree with the situation.How has your life changed as being a military spouse? good and bad?
The only bad thing really is that I am away from my little sisters and I miss them like crazy. Other than that, I am loving every minute of it thus far. Even the crappy time are outweighed by the good times. It isn't easy, but nothing worth having is gonna come easy.
good-- i have a great hubby, i have 2 gorgeous boys, ive lived @ 3 different duty stations {one was another country! } i became much more self sufficient, and in general a stronger woman
bad--- I cuss more
yes it was for the better it made me a stronger more driven individual.......
my husband is a wonderful man and i don't regret any of it!!!
this is how i explain being a military wife :i sleep alone, i cook for one, i eat alone, i change my oil, i mow my yard, i own a gun (which i know how to use - because i'm alone a lot), our son is a momma's boy, our dogs hate me because i dont spoil them like daddy, i do all the housework, i pay the bills, i pump my gas, i can fix anything, my heart drops everytime someone knocks on my door, i dont even take a shower without my cell phone within arms reach...
i wouldn't have it any other way.
i have a new view on healthcare. people are always ready and willing to help me with anything...
i married my husband b/c i love him - which has nothing to do w/ his career. but being a military wife is a big part of life when you marry a soldier...How has your life changed as being a military spouse? good and bad?
Good - I have a great marriage and financial security. I get to travel and move to areas that I wouldn't have thought to ever live. I have excellent free health care. We have 2 kids that were free (normal births are around $10K without complications).
Bad - We move when we don't want to. Husband isn't home for birthdays, anniversaries, holidays etc. Husband works 50+ hours a week. Stress of raising a family alone when he's deployed.
There are pros and cons to every job/lilfestyle out there. For us the military benefits outweigh the bad. We are almost done. In a few years we will get a check for the rest of his life. I don't know of any other job that you can retire after just 20 years and have all sorts of benefits as well.
Just remember it is a lifestyle and a commitment not meant for everyone. You have to grin and bear it at times even though you may not agree with the situation.How has your life changed as being a military spouse? good and bad?
The only bad thing really is that I am away from my little sisters and I miss them like crazy. Other than that, I am loving every minute of it thus far. Even the crappy time are outweighed by the good times. It isn't easy, but nothing worth having is gonna come easy.
good-- i have a great hubby, i have 2 gorgeous boys, ive lived @ 3 different duty stations {one was another country! } i became much more self sufficient, and in general a stronger woman
bad--- I cuss more
yes it was for the better it made me a stronger more driven individual.......
my husband is a wonderful man and i don't regret any of it!!!
How did kids like miranda cosgrove, cole spouse, dylan spouse get to be famous?
they used to be normal kids right? how did they get to be famous?i wanna be famous like that and just wonderin wat they did to become stars?How did kids like miranda cosgrove, cole spouse, dylan spouse get to be famous?
Dylan and Cole Sprouse and their parents lived in the Los Angeles area. When you have twins you can get them into acting right away. As far as I know they were into acting and magazines from the time they were babies. As for Miranda Cosgrove, apparently she was at a Los Angles restaurant with her parents when she was really little and she was dancing and singing around the table. An agent spotted her there and signed her on right away. By the time these three kids were older, they were all ready right with the acting industry. It seems like pure luck that got them famous. Not everyone is that unfortunate. All I can recommend to you is to talk to some talent agencies(you may even find some in the yellow pages of a phone book from a larger city). If you live in a big city, there may even be something in your newspapers. I think it just starts with auditions. Just keep trying and don't give up. If you are really good, you may be eventually noticed. If an agent see's talent in you, that is when they will look for roles for you. Recognition is the thing that makes you more and more successful. Once you know the right people you are doing great. I'm not an expert. I actually don't really know much about the acting industry, but this is as much as I know, so I apologize if I have any information wrong.
Good-luck!
Just to add something quick. A lot of these child stars aren't that successful when they are older, and some even become washed up. I don't want to see any kids like these three get washed up and I hope they make it through(which does happen a lot too), but it is one advantage you have as not starting out acting when you were a baby or really young child.How did kids like miranda cosgrove, cole spouse, dylan spouse get to be famous?
Well, they all started when they were really young. There's no instruction manual to become famous, you have to figure it out as you go how to do that.
The basics:
1) Get training- Acting school, local theater group, drama class/club at school
2) Build your resume and get a PROFESSIONAL head shot- You could search for local college student who need actors in their short films or whatever.
3) Join an agency in your area and get an agent- Getting an agent and joining an agency doesn't cost you a penny. Anyone who asks money upfront is a scam. The agent only gets money when you get booked to a job and get paid.
4) Audition- Don't wait for your agent to contact you about an audition. It's kind of like team work. If you find an audition for a role you want to try for, contact your agent and let him/her know about it.
5) Be yourself and hope for the best. Only you can make yourself famous. Give 110% effort in every job you get, no matter how small. If you're easy to work with, professional, and cooperative, the director/producer or whoever is in charge might give the good word to another director or whoever is about to make the next 'Titanic' about you.
They got into the business at a very young age...they took classes and had tons of experience by the time they got their own shows. They grew up in showbiz so they know the ropes and eventually it was their tiem to shine. For you to start, I would suggest getting some headshots taken, get some kind of acting classes (even ones at school could give you some kind of training), try out for school plays and even see if your school has a theatre troupe. The whole idea is to try to do as much as possible so it looks good on your resume.
They didn't become celebrities overnight, it took them YEARS to get to where they are, so don't expect it to happen to you instantly (although sometimes it just might happen). I think the biggest thing you need to realize is there is a lot of rejection and you need a lot of patience. I am sure these teen stars got rejected tons of times, but all you have to do is keep positive and never give up!
:)
AN AGENCY OR SOMETHING
Dylan and Cole Sprouse and their parents lived in the Los Angeles area. When you have twins you can get them into acting right away. As far as I know they were into acting and magazines from the time they were babies. As for Miranda Cosgrove, apparently she was at a Los Angles restaurant with her parents when she was really little and she was dancing and singing around the table. An agent spotted her there and signed her on right away. By the time these three kids were older, they were all ready right with the acting industry. It seems like pure luck that got them famous. Not everyone is that unfortunate. All I can recommend to you is to talk to some talent agencies(you may even find some in the yellow pages of a phone book from a larger city). If you live in a big city, there may even be something in your newspapers. I think it just starts with auditions. Just keep trying and don't give up. If you are really good, you may be eventually noticed. If an agent see's talent in you, that is when they will look for roles for you. Recognition is the thing that makes you more and more successful. Once you know the right people you are doing great. I'm not an expert. I actually don't really know much about the acting industry, but this is as much as I know, so I apologize if I have any information wrong.
Good-luck!
Just to add something quick. A lot of these child stars aren't that successful when they are older, and some even become washed up. I don't want to see any kids like these three get washed up and I hope they make it through(which does happen a lot too), but it is one advantage you have as not starting out acting when you were a baby or really young child.How did kids like miranda cosgrove, cole spouse, dylan spouse get to be famous?
Well, they all started when they were really young. There's no instruction manual to become famous, you have to figure it out as you go how to do that.
The basics:
1) Get training- Acting school, local theater group, drama class/club at school
2) Build your resume and get a PROFESSIONAL head shot- You could search for local college student who need actors in their short films or whatever.
3) Join an agency in your area and get an agent- Getting an agent and joining an agency doesn't cost you a penny. Anyone who asks money upfront is a scam. The agent only gets money when you get booked to a job and get paid.
4) Audition- Don't wait for your agent to contact you about an audition. It's kind of like team work. If you find an audition for a role you want to try for, contact your agent and let him/her know about it.
5) Be yourself and hope for the best. Only you can make yourself famous. Give 110% effort in every job you get, no matter how small. If you're easy to work with, professional, and cooperative, the director/producer or whoever is in charge might give the good word to another director or whoever is about to make the next 'Titanic' about you.
They got into the business at a very young age...they took classes and had tons of experience by the time they got their own shows. They grew up in showbiz so they know the ropes and eventually it was their tiem to shine. For you to start, I would suggest getting some headshots taken, get some kind of acting classes (even ones at school could give you some kind of training), try out for school plays and even see if your school has a theatre troupe. The whole idea is to try to do as much as possible so it looks good on your resume.
They didn't become celebrities overnight, it took them YEARS to get to where they are, so don't expect it to happen to you instantly (although sometimes it just might happen). I think the biggest thing you need to realize is there is a lot of rejection and you need a lot of patience. I am sure these teen stars got rejected tons of times, but all you have to do is keep positive and never give up!
:)
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What makes a spouse terrible?
so what qualifies him or her to being labeled this?What makes a spouse terrible?
cheating, lieing, being mean all the time... not brushing your teeth hahahaWhat makes a spouse terrible?
It really depends on the other one that is married to that person. I mean if my spouse cheated on me, abused me or our son, had a substance abuse, etc... I would consider that a bad spouse, but that is me and my opinion. I could tell my mom that the man she is married to is a terrible spouse, but she might not agree. I guess it really comes down to the one who is married to that person. Hopefully you are not dealing with a terrible spouse, and if so GOOD LUCK!
When they are unable to put the needs of their spouse equal to their own. Marriage is a compromise, and each person should value their partners needs and feeling equal to their own.
For every 5 years of marriage your allowed one really bad screw up. However if she is constantly screwing up and there is no remorse or guilt then its got to end because she is playing a game with your heart.
Abuse, infidelity, refusing to meet the needs of your partner, selfishness, laziness....the list goes on.
Being a prude. Not understanding human sexuality. Not respecting your privacy.
Disrespect, lying, cheating, bullying,
cheats every second he/she gets or completely ignores the others existence.
the three a's:
abuse
alcoholism (when they're not willing to quit for anything)
affair
there ya go!
being untrustworthy, whatever the case may be.
Dishonesty I suppose is the worst thing.
Lying, Cheating not a good communicator or listener and being dishonest.
No respect.
a terrible spouse..
Cheating
cheating
smoking and yellow teeth..
cheating, lieing, being mean all the time... not brushing your teeth hahahaWhat makes a spouse terrible?
It really depends on the other one that is married to that person. I mean if my spouse cheated on me, abused me or our son, had a substance abuse, etc... I would consider that a bad spouse, but that is me and my opinion. I could tell my mom that the man she is married to is a terrible spouse, but she might not agree. I guess it really comes down to the one who is married to that person. Hopefully you are not dealing with a terrible spouse, and if so GOOD LUCK!
When they are unable to put the needs of their spouse equal to their own. Marriage is a compromise, and each person should value their partners needs and feeling equal to their own.
For every 5 years of marriage your allowed one really bad screw up. However if she is constantly screwing up and there is no remorse or guilt then its got to end because she is playing a game with your heart.
Abuse, infidelity, refusing to meet the needs of your partner, selfishness, laziness....the list goes on.
Being a prude. Not understanding human sexuality. Not respecting your privacy.
Disrespect, lying, cheating, bullying,
cheats every second he/she gets or completely ignores the others existence.
the three a's:
abuse
alcoholism (when they're not willing to quit for anything)
affair
there ya go!
being untrustworthy, whatever the case may be.
Dishonesty I suppose is the worst thing.
Lying, Cheating not a good communicator or listener and being dishonest.
No respect.
a terrible spouse..
Cheating
cheating
smoking and yellow teeth..
Do you every get BORED OF SEX with your spouse?
For married couples out there...married 10+ years.....Have you ever been sick of the same sex with the same person (your husband/wife) year after year? Does it get boring after a while...or not?Do you every get BORED OF SEX with your spouse?
im not married but it sounds like u really need to try some new stuff and get a little bit more exploratory with ur partner. because u both have routines that u tend to stick to and they do get old after a while so change things up outfits places positions anything to try and help.Do you every get BORED OF SEX with your spouse?
I am married for almost 10 years and separated for 8 years. I didn't even really like him. But my other marriages, yes I got bored. I guess because I don't like sex that much. Don't have sex anymore and it is wonderful.
i was in a relationship for 5 years, and yes sex did get boring. But you gotta spice it up a bit, try some kinky **** because by now you are comfortable with each other. Honestly, try some rimming... for both of you, its unbelievable
yes it does at time. Its easy to get into a rut. you need to be willing to try different things (positions, places, fantasies) keeping conversation open is a big part and be willing to talk about anything.
Who doesn't? Yes it can get boring. That is why you have to spice things up a bit. Try new stuff. It never gets unbearable or not worth it. Just a little lame. Bad sex is better than no sex.
NEVER
i never did , but he did so he cheated on me many many times. it hurt alot but its cool now, i just know now i can never trust or love a man.
IM 12 YEARS OLD WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT
No waypimple cure eye pencil
im not married but it sounds like u really need to try some new stuff and get a little bit more exploratory with ur partner. because u both have routines that u tend to stick to and they do get old after a while so change things up outfits places positions anything to try and help.Do you every get BORED OF SEX with your spouse?
I am married for almost 10 years and separated for 8 years. I didn't even really like him. But my other marriages, yes I got bored. I guess because I don't like sex that much. Don't have sex anymore and it is wonderful.
i was in a relationship for 5 years, and yes sex did get boring. But you gotta spice it up a bit, try some kinky **** because by now you are comfortable with each other. Honestly, try some rimming... for both of you, its unbelievable
yes it does at time. Its easy to get into a rut. you need to be willing to try different things (positions, places, fantasies) keeping conversation open is a big part and be willing to talk about anything.
Who doesn't? Yes it can get boring. That is why you have to spice things up a bit. Try new stuff. It never gets unbearable or not worth it. Just a little lame. Bad sex is better than no sex.
NEVER
i never did , but he did so he cheated on me many many times. it hurt alot but its cool now, i just know now i can never trust or love a man.
IM 12 YEARS OLD WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT
No way
Is it possible to cheat on your spouse and be intimate with your spouse on the day?
Does a cheating spouse usually be intimate with their spouse on the same day that they have cheated or do they usually let a few days pass????Is it possible to cheat on your spouse and be intimate with your spouse on the day?
Not only possible but probable. Since a cheater has a lack of morals this would not bother the cheater at all. If fact, they might do it just so the spouse doesn't get suspicious.Is it possible to cheat on your spouse and be intimate with your spouse on the day?
My husband had sex with me the same day he was with his skanky whore. I did not know he was cheating on me at the time,one night we were in bed and i wanted to give him a BJ and every time i got near his penis he pulled me up. I tried 2 more times and the same thing i said what's wrong with you you like when i do that. He said that i got him so excited that he just wanted to get in side of me. I thought it was strange because he never ever stopped me before but OK i didn't think much of it until i found out that he had been cheating on me. He denied that It happened but any man turning down a BJ something is up specially when he never wants me to stop when i start.
Sometimes yes they do have both their partner and the ';other person'; in the same day. Which makes a lie of the whole ';never getting any/enough'; line that so many cheaters use. I guess it gives them a sense of power to think that they can (and did) have both.
It is extremely disrespectful action, to both of their partners. But I guess if you choose to cheat, respect is not something you're willing to give your partner anyway.
Yup! My hubby did! He cheated on me with a college, came home and than had sex with me...he told me a week later..now we are separated, not only because of that, but I've posted this info before..HE WANTS A NEW LIFE...anyway since Dec. he has this new girlfriend...and stupid me was still was sleeping with him up until April 1st. He use to come over and visit his son, sleep with me, and then go to her..she has no idea..at least I know(??) I did it because not only am I a bit stupid, but still love him...but the gate is closed now :) :).
Women can cheat and still have sex as usual with their husband or b/f. We are different than men b/c we can fake it.. men can't. When a man is cheating it's always obvious in the sex.. they tend to do it differently and take longer to come. With women, we don't have that problem.
I don't know for sure if my spouse did, but I know she would have sex with me one day and the affair the next. I know she tried, but at that point I was on to it and declined. But my spouse's sex drive seemed to increase during the affair.
To be honest .I use to have sex with some one and go home to my man aha meave sex with him I change, but now it feels like i am falling back to the way i use to be.I trying to controll it.It very hard.I am a very sexural person.
There are no rules to this but I would assume that if the man was getting it somewhere else, he most likely wouldn't initiate something with this wife the same day - he had his jollies for the day to put it bluntly.
Yes many people can manage that. Some men do not think cheating is wrong hence they deal with wife and girl friend as separate entities and can manage both the relationships quite well.
A sudden change in sex-drive, particularly an increase for women, is an indication of an affair.
You've never seen Maury, huh...
Read and believe Teenie's answer and then reverse the sexes.
Yes, it is done everyday with skanky trifling cheaters.
You would have to ask a cheating spouse that question.
Nobody knows but him/her.
sometimes...
Just depends on how things happen...
I would say they would
Mine did!
Not only possible but probable. Since a cheater has a lack of morals this would not bother the cheater at all. If fact, they might do it just so the spouse doesn't get suspicious.Is it possible to cheat on your spouse and be intimate with your spouse on the day?
My husband had sex with me the same day he was with his skanky whore. I did not know he was cheating on me at the time,one night we were in bed and i wanted to give him a BJ and every time i got near his penis he pulled me up. I tried 2 more times and the same thing i said what's wrong with you you like when i do that. He said that i got him so excited that he just wanted to get in side of me. I thought it was strange because he never ever stopped me before but OK i didn't think much of it until i found out that he had been cheating on me. He denied that It happened but any man turning down a BJ something is up specially when he never wants me to stop when i start.
Sometimes yes they do have both their partner and the ';other person'; in the same day. Which makes a lie of the whole ';never getting any/enough'; line that so many cheaters use. I guess it gives them a sense of power to think that they can (and did) have both.
It is extremely disrespectful action, to both of their partners. But I guess if you choose to cheat, respect is not something you're willing to give your partner anyway.
Yup! My hubby did! He cheated on me with a college, came home and than had sex with me...he told me a week later..now we are separated, not only because of that, but I've posted this info before..HE WANTS A NEW LIFE...anyway since Dec. he has this new girlfriend...and stupid me was still was sleeping with him up until April 1st. He use to come over and visit his son, sleep with me, and then go to her..she has no idea..at least I know(??) I did it because not only am I a bit stupid, but still love him...but the gate is closed now :) :).
Women can cheat and still have sex as usual with their husband or b/f. We are different than men b/c we can fake it.. men can't. When a man is cheating it's always obvious in the sex.. they tend to do it differently and take longer to come. With women, we don't have that problem.
I don't know for sure if my spouse did, but I know she would have sex with me one day and the affair the next. I know she tried, but at that point I was on to it and declined. But my spouse's sex drive seemed to increase during the affair.
To be honest .I use to have sex with some one and go home to my man aha meave sex with him I change, but now it feels like i am falling back to the way i use to be.I trying to controll it.It very hard.I am a very sexural person.
There are no rules to this but I would assume that if the man was getting it somewhere else, he most likely wouldn't initiate something with this wife the same day - he had his jollies for the day to put it bluntly.
Yes many people can manage that. Some men do not think cheating is wrong hence they deal with wife and girl friend as separate entities and can manage both the relationships quite well.
A sudden change in sex-drive, particularly an increase for women, is an indication of an affair.
You've never seen Maury, huh...
Read and believe Teenie's answer and then reverse the sexes.
Yes, it is done everyday with skanky trifling cheaters.
You would have to ask a cheating spouse that question.
Nobody knows but him/her.
sometimes...
Just depends on how things happen...
I would say they would
Mine did!
What are the rights and restrictions of a Brazillian spouse married to an American?
Can your new spouse get a job, go to college, drive, etc......What are the rights and restrictions of a Brazillian spouse married to an American?
Once the Brazilian is married to the American, the couple can apply for her green card. While the green card is pending, the Brazilian can ask for a work authorization card. Once she gets it, she can get a social security # and start working while waiting for green card. I believe it's pretty much the same for school, but she will probably have to pay the same tuition as a foreign student. Only green card holders and U.S. citizens are eligble for student aid.
Once the Brazilian is married to the American, the couple can apply for her green card. While the green card is pending, the Brazilian can ask for a work authorization card. Once she gets it, she can get a social security # and start working while waiting for green card. I believe it's pretty much the same for school, but she will probably have to pay the same tuition as a foreign student. Only green card holders and U.S. citizens are eligble for student aid.
Could a person still get a divorce if their spouse does not want a divorce?
It will take much longer becasue he has to sign and a judge can not make someone sign divorce papers. He can keep refusing the terms of the divorce decree to prolong it meaning you will be married longer and even it a divorce is granted...the other person has 30 days to file an appeal meaning....the divorce is voided and ti will start all over againCould a person still get a divorce if their spouse does not want a divorce?
Yes they can, and the person who doesn't want the divorce will be royally screwed. At least, that's what I've seen from other people's experiences.Could a person still get a divorce if their spouse does not want a divorce?
yes you can ..
Yep that is how most divorces occur
Yes. See a lawyer.
yeah, it just takes longer. you have to go to a lawyer.
yes, but it will take 2 years if he refuses to sign.
YES
yes check it out online for your state laws
Yes they can, and the person who doesn't want the divorce will be royally screwed. At least, that's what I've seen from other people's experiences.Could a person still get a divorce if their spouse does not want a divorce?
yes you can ..
Yep that is how most divorces occur
Yes. See a lawyer.
yeah, it just takes longer. you have to go to a lawyer.
yes, but it will take 2 years if he refuses to sign.
YES
yes check it out online for your state laws
Is it possible to cheat on your spouse and be intimate with your spouse on the day?
Does a cheating spouse usually be intimate with their spouse on the same day that they have cheated or do they usually let a few days pass????Is it possible to cheat on your spouse and be intimate with your spouse on the day?
Not only possible but probable. Since a cheater has a lack of morals this would not bother the cheater at all. If fact, they might do it just so the spouse doesn't get suspicious.Is it possible to cheat on your spouse and be intimate with your spouse on the day?
My husband had sex with me the same day he was with his skanky whore. I did not know he was cheating on me at the time,one night we were in bed and i wanted to give him a BJ and every time i got near his penis he pulled me up. I tried 2 more times and the same thing i said what's wrong with you you like when i do that. He said that i got him so excited that he just wanted to get in side of me. I thought it was strange because he never ever stopped me before but OK i didn't think much of it until i found out that he had been cheating on me. He denied that It happened but any man turning down a BJ something is up specially when he never wants me to stop when i start.
Sometimes yes they do have both their partner and the ';other person'; in the same day. Which makes a lie of the whole ';never getting any/enough'; line that so many cheaters use. I guess it gives them a sense of power to think that they can (and did) have both.
It is extremely disrespectful action, to both of their partners. But I guess if you choose to cheat, respect is not something you're willing to give your partner anyway.
Yup! My hubby did! He cheated on me with a college, came home and than had sex with me...he told me a week later..now we are separated, not only because of that, but I've posted this info before..HE WANTS A NEW LIFE...anyway since Dec. he has this new girlfriend...and stupid me was still was sleeping with him up until April 1st. He use to come over and visit his son, sleep with me, and then go to her..she has no idea..at least I know(??) I did it because not only am I a bit stupid, but still love him...but the gate is closed now :) :).
Women can cheat and still have sex as usual with their husband or b/f. We are different than men b/c we can fake it.. men can't. When a man is cheating it's always obvious in the sex.. they tend to do it differently and take longer to come. With women, we don't have that problem.
I don't know for sure if my spouse did, but I know she would have sex with me one day and the affair the next. I know she tried, but at that point I was on to it and declined. But my spouse's sex drive seemed to increase during the affair.
To be honest .I use to have sex with some one and go home to my man aha meave sex with him I change, but now it feels like i am falling back to the way i use to be.I trying to controll it.It very hard.I am a very sexural person.
There are no rules to this but I would assume that if the man was getting it somewhere else, he most likely wouldn't initiate something with this wife the same day - he had his jollies for the day to put it bluntly.
Yes many people can manage that. Some men do not think cheating is wrong hence they deal with wife and girl friend as separate entities and can manage both the relationships quite well.
A sudden change in sex-drive, particularly an increase for women, is an indication of an affair.
You've never seen Maury, huh...
Read and believe Teenie's answer and then reverse the sexes.
Yes, it is done everyday with skanky trifling cheaters.
You would have to ask a cheating spouse that question.
Nobody knows but him/her.
sometimes...
Just depends on how things happen...
I would say they would
Mine did!
Not only possible but probable. Since a cheater has a lack of morals this would not bother the cheater at all. If fact, they might do it just so the spouse doesn't get suspicious.Is it possible to cheat on your spouse and be intimate with your spouse on the day?
My husband had sex with me the same day he was with his skanky whore. I did not know he was cheating on me at the time,one night we were in bed and i wanted to give him a BJ and every time i got near his penis he pulled me up. I tried 2 more times and the same thing i said what's wrong with you you like when i do that. He said that i got him so excited that he just wanted to get in side of me. I thought it was strange because he never ever stopped me before but OK i didn't think much of it until i found out that he had been cheating on me. He denied that It happened but any man turning down a BJ something is up specially when he never wants me to stop when i start.
Sometimes yes they do have both their partner and the ';other person'; in the same day. Which makes a lie of the whole ';never getting any/enough'; line that so many cheaters use. I guess it gives them a sense of power to think that they can (and did) have both.
It is extremely disrespectful action, to both of their partners. But I guess if you choose to cheat, respect is not something you're willing to give your partner anyway.
Yup! My hubby did! He cheated on me with a college, came home and than had sex with me...he told me a week later..now we are separated, not only because of that, but I've posted this info before..HE WANTS A NEW LIFE...anyway since Dec. he has this new girlfriend...and stupid me was still was sleeping with him up until April 1st. He use to come over and visit his son, sleep with me, and then go to her..she has no idea..at least I know(??) I did it because not only am I a bit stupid, but still love him...but the gate is closed now :) :).
Women can cheat and still have sex as usual with their husband or b/f. We are different than men b/c we can fake it.. men can't. When a man is cheating it's always obvious in the sex.. they tend to do it differently and take longer to come. With women, we don't have that problem.
I don't know for sure if my spouse did, but I know she would have sex with me one day and the affair the next. I know she tried, but at that point I was on to it and declined. But my spouse's sex drive seemed to increase during the affair.
To be honest .I use to have sex with some one and go home to my man aha meave sex with him I change, but now it feels like i am falling back to the way i use to be.I trying to controll it.It very hard.I am a very sexural person.
There are no rules to this but I would assume that if the man was getting it somewhere else, he most likely wouldn't initiate something with this wife the same day - he had his jollies for the day to put it bluntly.
Yes many people can manage that. Some men do not think cheating is wrong hence they deal with wife and girl friend as separate entities and can manage both the relationships quite well.
A sudden change in sex-drive, particularly an increase for women, is an indication of an affair.
You've never seen Maury, huh...
Read and believe Teenie's answer and then reverse the sexes.
Yes, it is done everyday with skanky trifling cheaters.
You would have to ask a cheating spouse that question.
Nobody knows but him/her.
sometimes...
Just depends on how things happen...
I would say they would
Mine did!
What are the rights and restrictions of a Brazillian spouse married to an American?
Can your new spouse get a job, go to college, drive, etc......What are the rights and restrictions of a Brazillian spouse married to an American?
Once the Brazilian is married to the American, the couple can apply for her green card. While the green card is pending, the Brazilian can ask for a work authorization card. Once she gets it, she can get a social security # and start working while waiting for green card. I believe it's pretty much the same for school, but she will probably have to pay the same tuition as a foreign student. Only green card holders and U.S. citizens are eligble for student aid.
Once the Brazilian is married to the American, the couple can apply for her green card. While the green card is pending, the Brazilian can ask for a work authorization card. Once she gets it, she can get a social security # and start working while waiting for green card. I believe it's pretty much the same for school, but she will probably have to pay the same tuition as a foreign student. Only green card holders and U.S. citizens are eligble for student aid.
Could a person still get a divorce if their spouse does not want a divorce?
It will take much longer becasue he has to sign and a judge can not make someone sign divorce papers. He can keep refusing the terms of the divorce decree to prolong it meaning you will be married longer and even it a divorce is granted...the other person has 30 days to file an appeal meaning....the divorce is voided and ti will start all over againCould a person still get a divorce if their spouse does not want a divorce?
Yes they can, and the person who doesn't want the divorce will be royally screwed. At least, that's what I've seen from other people's experiences.Could a person still get a divorce if their spouse does not want a divorce?
yes you can ..
Yep that is how most divorces occur
Yes. See a lawyer.
yeah, it just takes longer. you have to go to a lawyer.
yes, but it will take 2 years if he refuses to sign.
YES
yes check it out online for your state lawspimple cure eye pencil
Yes they can, and the person who doesn't want the divorce will be royally screwed. At least, that's what I've seen from other people's experiences.Could a person still get a divorce if their spouse does not want a divorce?
yes you can ..
Yep that is how most divorces occur
Yes. See a lawyer.
yeah, it just takes longer. you have to go to a lawyer.
yes, but it will take 2 years if he refuses to sign.
YES
yes check it out online for your state laws
Do you think it should be unconstitutional for the spouse of a former prez to hold the office?
Why or, why not?Do you think it should be unconstitutional for the spouse of a former prez to hold the office?
YES ! Especially If their spouse has been ';Impeached'; and committed ';Perjury'; while serving their term !Do you think it should be unconstitutional for the spouse of a former prez to hold the office?
No.
You shouldn't be penalized for marriage.
No, just sons of former presidents!
Seriously though, If you are eligible to hold the office based on the requirements laid out by our founding fathers in the constitution, I don't see any reason to exclude a candidate based on their relations. Do you?
i don't even like hillary and i don't agree with what you said.
it's not like she was president (or was she? lol jk)
No
Should not be penalized for marriage
Yes, If the last name is Clinton.
Yes, I do. As a woman, Hillary simply isn't qualified to lead. Women are not capable of being good political or military leaders. In those venues, men MUST take the helm.
No.
I think if the spouse is the best for the job, then give it to them
Unfortunately, the spouse that is running this time would not make a good president.
NO, there should be no bill that limits anyone to just 2 terms. The only thing that this does is promote more of the same Centrism.
Hillary's not going to get the nomination anyway if that's what you're worried about.
No, why would that ever be justified? The only people who are going to say yes are opponents of Hillary. I'm an Obama supporter but still think that is a ridiculous idea.... (I bet there will be at least 50 neocon trolls saying yes before this reply is posted)
No. There is not valid reason for it to be unconstitutional. Do I wish the spouse of a former president to hold the office? Not at this time.
Uhm... no, if they meet the qualifications.
YES ! Especially If their spouse has been ';Impeached'; and committed ';Perjury'; while serving their term !Do you think it should be unconstitutional for the spouse of a former prez to hold the office?
No.
You shouldn't be penalized for marriage.
No, just sons of former presidents!
Seriously though, If you are eligible to hold the office based on the requirements laid out by our founding fathers in the constitution, I don't see any reason to exclude a candidate based on their relations. Do you?
i don't even like hillary and i don't agree with what you said.
it's not like she was president (or was she? lol jk)
No
Should not be penalized for marriage
Yes, If the last name is Clinton.
Yes, I do. As a woman, Hillary simply isn't qualified to lead. Women are not capable of being good political or military leaders. In those venues, men MUST take the helm.
No.
I think if the spouse is the best for the job, then give it to them
Unfortunately, the spouse that is running this time would not make a good president.
NO, there should be no bill that limits anyone to just 2 terms. The only thing that this does is promote more of the same Centrism.
Hillary's not going to get the nomination anyway if that's what you're worried about.
No, why would that ever be justified? The only people who are going to say yes are opponents of Hillary. I'm an Obama supporter but still think that is a ridiculous idea.... (I bet there will be at least 50 neocon trolls saying yes before this reply is posted)
No. There is not valid reason for it to be unconstitutional. Do I wish the spouse of a former president to hold the office? Not at this time.
Uhm... no, if they meet the qualifications.
Do you feel like you have to teach your spouse how to treat you?
I really feel like that... I feel like he keeps f'ing up and doing stuff then says sorry. Its almost like I feel like I have to teach him what communication and trust means... is this normal? I know it takes communication in a relationship... but when we communicate I feel like I have to tell him not only what I need, but I have to tell him what exactly it takes to be married. Is this normal? Is it just that I am communicating to him what I need or is it that I am telling him how to be in a relationship?Do you feel like you have to teach your spouse how to treat you?
Well of course. No one comes ';ready-made'; for marriage. Most people do have to talk about things and figure out how to communicate with each other, as they also learn what annoys each other, ect. I've had to ';train'; my husband and I'm still doing it after three years together, if that tells you anything.
There's no way for him to know how you feel about something unless you tell him. Guys don't pick up on little hints and that kind of thing; in fact, they're generally pretty oblivious. You have to tell him these things in order for him to know them, so you're on the right track! If couples could communicate telepathically or read each other's minds then communication wouldn't be such a big problem, but guys neither pick up on hints nor read female minds, and they really don't like to ';talk';. You just gotta make 'em.
And yes, you may have to tell him how to be in the relationship, too. As I said, no one comes ready-made. You have to get to know each other's habits, boundaries, moods, that kind of thing...and yes, it takes a while. Just keep the lines of communication open, even if it feels like you're the only one ever talking.Do you feel like you have to teach your spouse how to treat you?
Some guys simply don't know. It's sometimes how they were raised, or a failure of the educational system. Alas, all is not lost. Community colleges run communications courses and assertiveness training. There are self help articles all over the place these days. He needs to want to make your marriage the best it can be, and that starts with himself.
I always recommend that a couple take a personal growth class of some sort together. It could be anything, creative writing or artwork. There are other ways to involve him without you having to feel like your doing what his mother should have. It's not necessarily a failure on his Mom's part, but I said it that way because that's the impression I have of how you feel. See if there's any information on http://drphil.com that might be helpful if you can't find anything in your local community.
Best of luck, but try not to be to hard on him.
Its not normal, He should not have to be taught how to treat you, he should have learned that before you married him. He sounds like a jerk %26amp; you should move on. how many times are you going to let him walk all over you %26amp; treat you like garbage %26amp; him think that becasue he says sorry %26amp; that will make it all better! you deserve soooo much better!! there are men out there who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated!!!
Well, while I think we all teach each other certain things, and we should grow together as a couple, I don't think that one person should necessarily have to put up with repeated F-up's and then the other person just gets by with an ';I'm sorry.'; I just think that it should be more equal, you two should be growing together. It sounds to me like you're raising a child here, not being in a relationship with your husband.
I think it's normal. Most guys do not come factory-ready. My husband is awesome in many ways, but he does not have much experience with women, so I have to teach him what is acceptable and unacceptable. My dad said that my mom did this too, so to me it is normal!
I got to the point with my ex, that talking to her was just wasting my time and I was right because ultimately, people know how they should act, but in reality, they only act the way that they want to whether it is right or not.
I sincerely hope that things work out for you.
i think we do have to teach others how to treat us, it is normal i don't think when a man first gets married, or if he is young and immature that he even has a clue about it. just be patient and in time u may have a really good relationship.
It's like that because you're from different background and haven't been taught the same values.
I've been there, it's hard. He would do things that I would consider rude and illmannered and for him they were normal things. He never changed.
I do because he hasn't been married for a long time sometimes I even feel like he don't treat me like his wife because he may still love his ex but yes I do have to tell him stuff it gets annoying.
I'll be honest. My wife is much better at relationships and marriage than I am. I've learned a lot from her and continue to. I'm grateful she's been willing to.
Nope. He came well-mannered and already trained. I probably would've dropped any man who wasn't long before I thought of marrying him.
Well of course. No one comes ';ready-made'; for marriage. Most people do have to talk about things and figure out how to communicate with each other, as they also learn what annoys each other, ect. I've had to ';train'; my husband and I'm still doing it after three years together, if that tells you anything.
There's no way for him to know how you feel about something unless you tell him. Guys don't pick up on little hints and that kind of thing; in fact, they're generally pretty oblivious. You have to tell him these things in order for him to know them, so you're on the right track! If couples could communicate telepathically or read each other's minds then communication wouldn't be such a big problem, but guys neither pick up on hints nor read female minds, and they really don't like to ';talk';. You just gotta make 'em.
And yes, you may have to tell him how to be in the relationship, too. As I said, no one comes ready-made. You have to get to know each other's habits, boundaries, moods, that kind of thing...and yes, it takes a while. Just keep the lines of communication open, even if it feels like you're the only one ever talking.Do you feel like you have to teach your spouse how to treat you?
Some guys simply don't know. It's sometimes how they were raised, or a failure of the educational system. Alas, all is not lost. Community colleges run communications courses and assertiveness training. There are self help articles all over the place these days. He needs to want to make your marriage the best it can be, and that starts with himself.
I always recommend that a couple take a personal growth class of some sort together. It could be anything, creative writing or artwork. There are other ways to involve him without you having to feel like your doing what his mother should have. It's not necessarily a failure on his Mom's part, but I said it that way because that's the impression I have of how you feel. See if there's any information on http://drphil.com that might be helpful if you can't find anything in your local community.
Best of luck, but try not to be to hard on him.
Its not normal, He should not have to be taught how to treat you, he should have learned that before you married him. He sounds like a jerk %26amp; you should move on. how many times are you going to let him walk all over you %26amp; treat you like garbage %26amp; him think that becasue he says sorry %26amp; that will make it all better! you deserve soooo much better!! there are men out there who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated!!!
Well, while I think we all teach each other certain things, and we should grow together as a couple, I don't think that one person should necessarily have to put up with repeated F-up's and then the other person just gets by with an ';I'm sorry.'; I just think that it should be more equal, you two should be growing together. It sounds to me like you're raising a child here, not being in a relationship with your husband.
I think it's normal. Most guys do not come factory-ready. My husband is awesome in many ways, but he does not have much experience with women, so I have to teach him what is acceptable and unacceptable. My dad said that my mom did this too, so to me it is normal!
I got to the point with my ex, that talking to her was just wasting my time and I was right because ultimately, people know how they should act, but in reality, they only act the way that they want to whether it is right or not.
I sincerely hope that things work out for you.
i think we do have to teach others how to treat us, it is normal i don't think when a man first gets married, or if he is young and immature that he even has a clue about it. just be patient and in time u may have a really good relationship.
It's like that because you're from different background and haven't been taught the same values.
I've been there, it's hard. He would do things that I would consider rude and illmannered and for him they were normal things. He never changed.
I do because he hasn't been married for a long time sometimes I even feel like he don't treat me like his wife because he may still love his ex but yes I do have to tell him stuff it gets annoying.
I'll be honest. My wife is much better at relationships and marriage than I am. I've learned a lot from her and continue to. I'm grateful she's been willing to.
Nope. He came well-mannered and already trained. I probably would've dropped any man who wasn't long before I thought of marrying him.
Can you go out and have dinner with your spouse on sims life stories?
Hi i have sims for pcCan you go out and have dinner with your spouse on sims life stories?
kill yourself d i c k.. why are you even playing sims life stories? its lame! get a life and not a sims one
kill yourself d i c k.. why are you even playing sims life stories? its lame! get a life and not a sims one
I heard your spouse will sometimes get your symptons when you are pregnant. has this happened to anyone?
WHEN I WAS PREGNANT WITH MY DAUGHTER I HAD A BAD FLU, I AM TWO DAYS LATE AND MY HUSBAND HAS A BAD FLU. I TOOK A TEST BUT IT WAS NEGATIVE.HAS THIS HAPPENED TO ANYONE?I heard your spouse will sometimes get your symptons when you are pregnant. has this happened to anyone?
I had a baby back in December. I was nausea all day long but never got physically sick. But my husband (who works first) would get to work and have to run to the bathroom because he was getting sick. This happened almost ever day the first trimester.I heard your spouse will sometimes get your symptons when you are pregnant. has this happened to anyone?
I had a miscarriage, but when I was pregnant, my fiance would get really tired all the time and was constantly eating ice cream! And this is a man who manages a fitness center and is a total health nut, I thought it was funny. =)
Well, i had a friend, she was pregnant...
her boyfriend was also getting her symptoms like vomitting and stuff like that.
I had a baby back in December. I was nausea all day long but never got physically sick. But my husband (who works first) would get to work and have to run to the bathroom because he was getting sick. This happened almost ever day the first trimester.I heard your spouse will sometimes get your symptons when you are pregnant. has this happened to anyone?
I had a miscarriage, but when I was pregnant, my fiance would get really tired all the time and was constantly eating ice cream! And this is a man who manages a fitness center and is a total health nut, I thought it was funny. =)
Well, i had a friend, she was pregnant...
her boyfriend was also getting her symptoms like vomitting and stuff like that.
What would your spouse say if i sent you flowers and a card that read....?
Just wanted to say.
that people come in and out of our lives, and we sometimes forget to stop for a few seconds to let them know how wonderful and amazing they are. so i just wanted you to know that i enjoy who you are.
i'm glad i had the chance to meet you and share in a smile or two.
most of all i enjoy your beauty not only physical but the beauty that is inside of you.
What would your spouse or would you not tell them?What would your spouse say if i sent you flowers and a card that read....?
I would tell him, and he'd probably be amused and pleased that someone else noticed.What would your spouse say if i sent you flowers and a card that read....?
I'm lucky. He's a wonderful guy who trusts me. I'd never betray his trust, which only makes him trust me more. It's a nice place to be.
If someone you met did a favor or something for you then a nice floral arrangement with a simple thank you card would be acceptable to most spouses , male or female , I would think .. But you crossed the line .. I see no need to reference her beauty physical or otherwise.. You need a lesson in manners and etiquette ...
HI J SEVEN,,i would show it to him,,just to make him,jealouse,,and he might just start sending me pretty cards,like that one,and if u wrote that,u need to get it printed in a card,card companies would love it,,PEACE
No as i would appreciate the comment and flattery.
I probably wouldn't tell him because he would be very insecure after that.
I would kill you. I am homophobic.
Of course I would tell him! He would say something like, ';At least I'm not the only one who sees it';. He's not the jealous type at all.
My spouse would think it likely that you are the child of one of the elderly people I care for.
wow um i really do not know.
my wife would probably kill you... sorry lol
that people come in and out of our lives, and we sometimes forget to stop for a few seconds to let them know how wonderful and amazing they are. so i just wanted you to know that i enjoy who you are.
i'm glad i had the chance to meet you and share in a smile or two.
most of all i enjoy your beauty not only physical but the beauty that is inside of you.
What would your spouse or would you not tell them?What would your spouse say if i sent you flowers and a card that read....?
I would tell him, and he'd probably be amused and pleased that someone else noticed.What would your spouse say if i sent you flowers and a card that read....?
I'm lucky. He's a wonderful guy who trusts me. I'd never betray his trust, which only makes him trust me more. It's a nice place to be.
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If someone you met did a favor or something for you then a nice floral arrangement with a simple thank you card would be acceptable to most spouses , male or female , I would think .. But you crossed the line .. I see no need to reference her beauty physical or otherwise.. You need a lesson in manners and etiquette ...
HI J SEVEN,,i would show it to him,,just to make him,jealouse,,and he might just start sending me pretty cards,like that one,and if u wrote that,u need to get it printed in a card,card companies would love it,,PEACE
No as i would appreciate the comment and flattery.
I probably wouldn't tell him because he would be very insecure after that.
I would kill you. I am homophobic.
Of course I would tell him! He would say something like, ';At least I'm not the only one who sees it';. He's not the jealous type at all.
My spouse would think it likely that you are the child of one of the elderly people I care for.
wow um i really do not know.
my wife would probably kill you... sorry lol
Is your spouse spending to much money?
If they key to becoming wealthy is investing your money, why do so many spouses insist on spending so much money on CRAP they don't really need?Is your spouse spending to much money?
My husband is a real saver but he takes very good care of me.Is your spouse spending to much money?
First you need to understand the purchase. Ones mans trash is another mans treasure sort of thing or is it just to fill a void in her life. I fill my wife's time with a variety of responsibilities and entertainments (No time to shop for crap)
Because many fail to implement some type of budget with their household finances.
I have no clue.
My bf is spending $3500 for a motor for a car that I would have sold.
Some people got it, some don't.
I'm with Ethan. We use Dave Ramsey's ';Total Money Makeover';. Following it has basically eliminated arguments about money in our household. We make a buget %26amp; everyone sticks to it. We draw out a set amount of cash on payday %26amp; divide it into envelopes (including entertainment for each person). As long as it isn't immoral or illegal, each person can spend their fun money on anything they want.
If one spouse is spending and one is saving, there is obviously an impasse that is going to lead to marital problems. In the US, 75% of divorces attribute their marital woes to arguments about money.
My wife and I regularly sit down to discuss our financial situation and we make all these decisions together so that we can achieve all of our long-term goals together. There is no other way to do it.
Because the momentary impulse buy makes them feel really good at the time....it's like a drug....pimple cure eye pencil
My husband is a real saver but he takes very good care of me.Is your spouse spending to much money?
First you need to understand the purchase. Ones mans trash is another mans treasure sort of thing or is it just to fill a void in her life. I fill my wife's time with a variety of responsibilities and entertainments (No time to shop for crap)
Because many fail to implement some type of budget with their household finances.
I have no clue.
My bf is spending $3500 for a motor for a car that I would have sold.
Some people got it, some don't.
I'm with Ethan. We use Dave Ramsey's ';Total Money Makeover';. Following it has basically eliminated arguments about money in our household. We make a buget %26amp; everyone sticks to it. We draw out a set amount of cash on payday %26amp; divide it into envelopes (including entertainment for each person). As long as it isn't immoral or illegal, each person can spend their fun money on anything they want.
If one spouse is spending and one is saving, there is obviously an impasse that is going to lead to marital problems. In the US, 75% of divorces attribute their marital woes to arguments about money.
My wife and I regularly sit down to discuss our financial situation and we make all these decisions together so that we can achieve all of our long-term goals together. There is no other way to do it.
Because the momentary impulse buy makes them feel really good at the time....it's like a drug....
Does new spouse have visitation rights?
My ex has ample visitiation with our children and i have done everything in my power to facilitate this (including driving the kids there due to him losing his licence for dui). On days when he is working long hours and won't be there for his visits, I have allowed his mom (paternal grandma) to have the visits instead. Now, however, he wants me to drop the kids off with his new wife (who I've known since grade 7 and frankly don't like). My question is this ... do I have an obligation to do so (espcially if they don't want to) Or should I be the better person and force my kids to go? I am in Ontario, Canada and would appreciate local answers.Does new spouse have visitation rights?
Visitation would not extend to the new wife by American divorce court, unless the family court orders it. It doesn't even extend to Grandma unless that's in the divorce decree.
Your best bet would be contact your divorce attorney and ask him or her if you are obligated, I'm betting it's a no. Then simply tell the ex that's not going to happen, you don't want it, kids don't want it, court says you don't have to, and let him sort it out on his end. You don't have to be a pushover on this.
Sorry not a Canadian answer but willing to bet it's the same.Does new spouse have visitation rights?
I do not know Canadian law, but I doubt seriously your husband has visitation rights that require you take the children to someone else. Contacxt your divorce lawyer or the judge.
Don't know about Canada, but here your ex husband would be responsible for picking up your children, my ex husband also got a DUI and his visitation agreement stated, HE must provide a licensed driver to pick up his son, his ex wife never picked him up and dropped him off, let the new wife do the driving.
You already know what is best for the kids. If the dad and especially the new wife (whom you know already), have no desire and are unwilling to see the kids as a joint effort, then I wouldn't force it. I would insist that the father come to your space or meet him in a mutually acceptable place. His mom's place sounds excellent. You just don't want for him or for you to feel uncomfortable. At all costs, the children must feel happy and be at ease. Never say anything around them that will make them feel that they are the cause of the contention between you and their father. Then your efforts will be for success. Read Psalm 35 to (Plead My Cause) and do it daily for it is so invaluable. Then read Psalm 4 for (Safety and Protection) and have God's safety net encompass you and your loved ones. ';The Lord daily loadeth us with benefits, even the God of our salvation.'; - Psalm 68:19. Remember this, ';If God be for us, who can be against us?'; - Romans 8:31. I wish you well. Peace and God Bless.
Visitation would not extend to the new wife by American divorce court, unless the family court orders it. It doesn't even extend to Grandma unless that's in the divorce decree.
Your best bet would be contact your divorce attorney and ask him or her if you are obligated, I'm betting it's a no. Then simply tell the ex that's not going to happen, you don't want it, kids don't want it, court says you don't have to, and let him sort it out on his end. You don't have to be a pushover on this.
Sorry not a Canadian answer but willing to bet it's the same.Does new spouse have visitation rights?
I do not know Canadian law, but I doubt seriously your husband has visitation rights that require you take the children to someone else. Contacxt your divorce lawyer or the judge.
Don't know about Canada, but here your ex husband would be responsible for picking up your children, my ex husband also got a DUI and his visitation agreement stated, HE must provide a licensed driver to pick up his son, his ex wife never picked him up and dropped him off, let the new wife do the driving.
You already know what is best for the kids. If the dad and especially the new wife (whom you know already), have no desire and are unwilling to see the kids as a joint effort, then I wouldn't force it. I would insist that the father come to your space or meet him in a mutually acceptable place. His mom's place sounds excellent. You just don't want for him or for you to feel uncomfortable. At all costs, the children must feel happy and be at ease. Never say anything around them that will make them feel that they are the cause of the contention between you and their father. Then your efforts will be for success. Read Psalm 35 to (Plead My Cause) and do it daily for it is so invaluable. Then read Psalm 4 for (Safety and Protection) and have God's safety net encompass you and your loved ones. ';The Lord daily loadeth us with benefits, even the God of our salvation.'; - Psalm 68:19. Remember this, ';If God be for us, who can be against us?'; - Romans 8:31. I wish you well. Peace and God Bless.
What is the biggest turn off about your spouse?
Some times I know my husband has to look at me in disgust. What is the most disgusting thing your spouse does?What is the biggest turn off about your spouse?
she has hairy asss cheeksWhat is the biggest turn off about your spouse?
My husband always burps. Thats the most disgusting thing he does
Not married, but I hate it when my woman's stomach starts getting fat. But I love when her boobs or butt get bigger, just not her belly
We all have weaknesses. I think when we think poorly of our spouse it is more a reflection on how we think than on the shortcoming of our spouse. If we can keep a positive attitude, we will only see the good in others and improve on the short comings.
when my hubby has showered or bathed in 3 days i tell him oh no u are not getting into this bed till u shower stinkerella. then i change the sheets and we have anice clean soft bed to get into. this doesnt happen to often but it does happen and when he sees clean sheets especailly 2 days after i just changed them he gets the idea and then takes a bath and does so every nite there after...
he smokes all the time
sometimes my hubby forgets to brush his teeth in the morning, and when I remind him, if he's running late, he won't bother brushing them he'll just leave for work. LOL
I'm thinking but I cant think of one thing we all at one time or another will disgust our partner but I cant think of one
his lack of wanting to grow, thinking hes sooo important, and his micro managment ( we work together).
his immaturity.
Wipes his face on his shirt when he is sweaty, I guess I will let him live.
I love him, and do not consider him disgusting, even when he stinks up the bathroom.
make weird faces at me but i still love him
Pick just one? Ouch...
Pathological liar
Immaturity
Selfish
Stingy
Secretive
Evasive
Control Freak
definitely the farting :) Other than that I love him to pieces!
When he undresses, sike! everything is sexy to me about my man
farts in bed
she has hairy asss cheeksWhat is the biggest turn off about your spouse?
My husband always burps. Thats the most disgusting thing he does
Not married, but I hate it when my woman's stomach starts getting fat. But I love when her boobs or butt get bigger, just not her belly
We all have weaknesses. I think when we think poorly of our spouse it is more a reflection on how we think than on the shortcoming of our spouse. If we can keep a positive attitude, we will only see the good in others and improve on the short comings.
when my hubby has showered or bathed in 3 days i tell him oh no u are not getting into this bed till u shower stinkerella. then i change the sheets and we have anice clean soft bed to get into. this doesnt happen to often but it does happen and when he sees clean sheets especailly 2 days after i just changed them he gets the idea and then takes a bath and does so every nite there after...
he smokes all the time
sometimes my hubby forgets to brush his teeth in the morning, and when I remind him, if he's running late, he won't bother brushing them he'll just leave for work. LOL
I'm thinking but I cant think of one thing we all at one time or another will disgust our partner but I cant think of one
his lack of wanting to grow, thinking hes sooo important, and his micro managment ( we work together).
his immaturity.
Wipes his face on his shirt when he is sweaty, I guess I will let him live.
I love him, and do not consider him disgusting, even when he stinks up the bathroom.
make weird faces at me but i still love him
Pick just one? Ouch...
Pathological liar
Immaturity
Selfish
Stingy
Secretive
Evasive
Control Freak
definitely the farting :) Other than that I love him to pieces!
When he undresses, sike! everything is sexy to me about my man
farts in bed
Does your spouse know that you have got a yahoo answers account?
or have they got one themselves? would you let them see your questions?Does your spouse know that you have got a yahoo answers account?
Yes she knows, and I often ask her expertise on answers I give. I have nothing to hide, so why should I keep anything from her?Does your spouse know that you have got a yahoo answers account?
1) Yes, he knows (and I often read him some of the more amusing questions)
2) Yes, he has one too
3) Yes, I let him see my questions (and I often read him my answers to the above-mentioned amusing questions of others)
What's the big deal?
He knows I have my account and calls me a ';Dweeb';. He doesn't have one and wouldn't ever consider joining me....
I don't think I would mind him reading my questions/answers... I even sometimes ask his opinion in which I must be prepared to get criticized for being a ';Dweeb'; once more...
he doesn't know, it isn't like it's a secret, but i figure its not that big a deal and i had it before we got married or even knew each other. if he asks i would tell him. as for him having a yahoo account...idk and don't care. i trust him.
yes he knows. its not a secret or a big deal. i like reading and answering ?'s. its not like a chat forum like facebook or myspace. i dont have either 1 of those and neither does he.
He doesn't know yet because I just created it. And I would love for him to read the questions and answers. Definitely something I wouldn't hid from him.
No, and don't care if he does. No I have a secret acct. and plan to keep it that way.
Heck yeah he knows! I read him all the questions and we have a good laugh!
He doesn't want one. He is more than welcome to see all my answers/questions.
yes he knows, no he doesn't have one. He prefers motorcycle forums which he is active in.
Sure he can see my answers, I don't ask any though.
She sure does and I have nothing to hide so she is welcome to see my questions and answers.
Yes he knows I am on here and that is a very good question because some of my questions involve him so I don't think so.
Sure.
I know yours does not, since he doesn't exist.
Yes and yes I hide nothing from her.
yes he knows, and it doesn't bother him!!
yes
yes. but he dont ever ask me what i'm doing he sees i'm on y!answers and just goes on to do this things.. =]
Yes she knows, and I often ask her expertise on answers I give. I have nothing to hide, so why should I keep anything from her?Does your spouse know that you have got a yahoo answers account?
1) Yes, he knows (and I often read him some of the more amusing questions)
2) Yes, he has one too
3) Yes, I let him see my questions (and I often read him my answers to the above-mentioned amusing questions of others)
What's the big deal?
He knows I have my account and calls me a ';Dweeb';. He doesn't have one and wouldn't ever consider joining me....
I don't think I would mind him reading my questions/answers... I even sometimes ask his opinion in which I must be prepared to get criticized for being a ';Dweeb'; once more...
he doesn't know, it isn't like it's a secret, but i figure its not that big a deal and i had it before we got married or even knew each other. if he asks i would tell him. as for him having a yahoo account...idk and don't care. i trust him.
yes he knows. its not a secret or a big deal. i like reading and answering ?'s. its not like a chat forum like facebook or myspace. i dont have either 1 of those and neither does he.
He doesn't know yet because I just created it. And I would love for him to read the questions and answers. Definitely something I wouldn't hid from him.
No, and don't care if he does. No I have a secret acct. and plan to keep it that way.
Heck yeah he knows! I read him all the questions and we have a good laugh!
He doesn't want one. He is more than welcome to see all my answers/questions.
yes he knows, no he doesn't have one. He prefers motorcycle forums which he is active in.
Sure he can see my answers, I don't ask any though.
She sure does and I have nothing to hide so she is welcome to see my questions and answers.
Yes he knows I am on here and that is a very good question because some of my questions involve him so I don't think so.
Sure.
I know yours does not, since he doesn't exist.
Yes and yes I hide nothing from her.
yes he knows, and it doesn't bother him!!
yes
yes. but he dont ever ask me what i'm doing he sees i'm on y!answers and just goes on to do this things.. =]
Does your spouse let you have a girlfriend or boyfriend on the side?
No, and they shouldn't. If you can't commit, you shouldn't get married. :/Does your spouse let you have a girlfriend or boyfriend on the side?
if you mean to say a friend that is a girl or boy then yes. but to have a actual boyfriend or girl friend then no.Does your spouse let you have a girlfriend or boyfriend on the side?
no never
if you mean to say a friend that is a girl or boy then yes. but to have a actual boyfriend or girl friend then no.Does your spouse let you have a girlfriend or boyfriend on the side?
no never
Can you Legally drink in Texas if your spouse is twenty one or older?
Actually, yes you can, as long as you are in the visible presence of your legal age spouse or parent/guardian, you may possess and consume alcohlic beverages as a minor in Texas. For those who don't believe this, here's the proof, it's a government run website, so the info is correct.
www.alcoholpolicy.niaaa.nih.gov
Some people incorrectly believe it is illegal for a minor to drink under any and all circumstances, but that's not true. Laws vary from state to state, but most state laws DO make some provision for minors to consume alcohol in private settings AS LONG AS it is furnished to them by a parent/guardian OR a legal age spouse and are under such person's supervison while they consume it. Texas is one of these states. if you go to the above website and click on state profiles of underage policies, you can look up state by state what specific laws say about this matter.Can you Legally drink in Texas if your spouse is twenty one or older?
Absolutely not. Only the person 21 or over has the rights to purchase or consume alcohol. Those rights aren't shared with an underage spouse. You don't get extra points for being an under aged drinker because you married. True, you might need a drink now and then (I couldn't image being married that young), but your just going to have to wait.
Someone asked this question before. If you want to check it out, go right here... http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>Can you Legally drink in Texas if your spouse is twenty one or older?
Only if your last name is Bush, then you can drink, do coke and hide from the draft!
Yes, in Texas you can.
Only if you are as well.
No, only if you are 21 or over.
only if YOU are 21. but nice try
ur spouse can but if u arent 21 u cant
www.alcoholpolicy.niaaa.nih.gov
Some people incorrectly believe it is illegal for a minor to drink under any and all circumstances, but that's not true. Laws vary from state to state, but most state laws DO make some provision for minors to consume alcohol in private settings AS LONG AS it is furnished to them by a parent/guardian OR a legal age spouse and are under such person's supervison while they consume it. Texas is one of these states. if you go to the above website and click on state profiles of underage policies, you can look up state by state what specific laws say about this matter.Can you Legally drink in Texas if your spouse is twenty one or older?
Absolutely not. Only the person 21 or over has the rights to purchase or consume alcohol. Those rights aren't shared with an underage spouse. You don't get extra points for being an under aged drinker because you married. True, you might need a drink now and then (I couldn't image being married that young), but your just going to have to wait.
Someone asked this question before. If you want to check it out, go right here... http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>Can you Legally drink in Texas if your spouse is twenty one or older?
Only if your last name is Bush, then you can drink, do coke and hide from the draft!
Yes, in Texas you can.
Only if you are as well.
No, only if you are 21 or over.
only if YOU are 21. but nice try
ur spouse can but if u arent 21 u cant
What does the bible say about keeping your spouse sexually satsified?
if you know, please tell where and what it says. thanks so much! the reason i want to know is my husband never wants sex and i always want it. i'd just like to know what the bible says about this, and if we should meet in the middle or if i am suppose to go on unhappy about it?What does the bible say about keeping your spouse sexually satsified?
Read 1 Corinthians 7--it basically says you are not to deprive one another (sexual relations is implied) unless you are devoting yourself to fasting and prayer, and that your bodies belong to each other.
Josh is so wrong in saying the Bible doesn't talk about sex being pleasurable but only for reproduction--I guess he has never read Song of Solomon!What does the bible say about keeping your spouse sexually satsified?
your husband must be gay. if i had a wife who wanted sex more often than me it would be heaven
the bible doesnt discuss sex as a pleasurable thing, only as a tool to concieve children. the pope wont even let catholics use condoms. if your trying to convince your husband that you need more sex, the bible probably isnt your best bet
nothing, there is nothing at all in the Bible about having sex. the notion of women being satisfied sexually is a very new one that didn't come to light till after the Kinsey report. I think you should talk to your husband and let him know you feel, what's the worst that could happen.
it does say in the new testament (i think it was paul) that you're not supposed to withhold sex from one another. sorry i dont know the verse off the top of my head, but it's one of the sections where he talks about marriage and stuff. there's a few of them.
Well, I cannot recall exactly, but in several places the Bible does mention sex. The Song of Solomon is a love story. Also mentioned are God's wishes that believers do not withhold children from His Kingdom (and how do we get children???) and that children are a blessing. And what other posters have said.
Husband not normal if he never wants sex...no offense.
';And so the day came to pass that a decree went out. And it spake of keeping thy spouse satisfied in all manner of sexual ways. In any form and at any time by thy use of battery operated devices, latex products and manual stimulation. Surely thy watching pornography is permissible and was deemed not to be a sin.
But yea, there were those who believed otherwise and felt that watching such and touching thyself in an impure manner was indeed a sin. And there was much wailing and gnashing of teeth.';
Larry Flint in a letter to the Corinthians
I am sorry I don't know exactly where it is; but I think that St. Paul wrote something along the lines of : ';Husbands, respect and take care of your wives as Jesus takes care of His Church...and Wives, respect your husbands...';
Why don't you Google it?
There must be information you can use...Or ask your pastor or priest about it. Good luck.
Sex is a wonderful gift from God, but many people misuse it or abuse it.
BTW....Big Daddy's answer made me laugh so much!!!
How witty !!!
He might be cheating on you if he don't want sex with you anymore. You should get a back bone and ask him why hes not wanting it anymore.
Maybe he is getting sex in different ways... Not to make you upset or anything, but that is usually the case.
I don't know about the 2nd testament Bible, but in the Torah, it doesn't say anything.
And why would you want to consult the Bible on sex advice? Ewww.
to be honest with you, you should get a bible and go to songs of songs and it might help you with your problems...
I don't know what the bible says but I don't think anyone should go without and it is the responsibility of the other spouse to insure that they make the other one happy, even when they don't want to.
Your hubby has libido issues and should see a doc because it could be medical. Is he overweight, high blood pressure, stressed, etc.? Or have him smoke a bowl of weed! It will relax him and get him worked up.
Your husband has what most men want, that is a wife who wants sex. You're a cool chick, keep it up and get him to a doc.
nada, zip, zilch, zero, nothing
sex is to be use to make children only is what it's purpose is for !!! And why don't u look up what the Bible says instead of ridiculing others answers ?? Don't have 1? Go to the library !! Go to wal-mart get a real nice 1 for $10 !! QUit being hateful !:)d
1 corinthians 7:3-5 talks about how men and women are suppose to have sex with one another as long as it does not interfering with his time (God) but verse 6 says that he speaks this with permission and that is not a commandment
1 Corinthians 7:3 (NKJV) Let the husband render to his wife the affection due her, and likewise also the wife to her husband.
The word ';affection'; is the Greek word eunoia, which mean: ';kindness; conjugal duty, benevolence, good will';. And the word ';due'; is opheilo, which means: ';to owe; fig. to be under obligation (ought, must, should); be bound.';
Listen carefully believers; When you get married, you become obligated to meet the physical needs of your spouse. Marriage is no place for celibacy. You are not more spiritual if you abstain from sex in your marriage; you are, in fact in sin.
What this verse clearly teaches is that the responsibility of the husband is to pay what he owes to his wife. And the responsibility of the wife is to pay what she owes to her husband. She is to pay her debt. Almost all marriage problems can be traced to this cause. This commandment is not obeyed by many husbands and wives.
What is the duty of the husband? Paul tells us very plainly in:
Ephesians 5:25 (NKJV) ';Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her,';
The general obligation is that I am to pay to my spouse what I owe them. I am to fulfill my duty as a spouse. Now there is a specific obligation, and it is found in verses:
1 Corinthians 7:4-5 (NKJV) The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. And likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. 5 Do not deprive one another except with consent for a time, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again so that Satan does not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
Our obligation is stated very simply, it is given to us in the first phrase of verse 5. ';Do not deprive one another';, the word ';deprive'; is the Greek word, apostereo, which is a compound verb that comes from ';apo,';which means: ';from,'; and ';stereo'; which means: ';to deprive, or keep back.'; The compound word means to deprive another of what belongs to him or her. The verb ';deprive'; is in the present tense and could be translated ';Stop depriving one another.'; The object is the body which belongs to the spouse in the marital union. What Paul is saying is that you do not have the right to deprive your marriage partner of their conjugal rights. You do not have the right to deprive them of their rights within a physical relationship in marriage. It is not enough for us to say that sex is a marital privilege. It is that, but it is also a sacred responsibility, it is a debt that we owe.
When you are single, you do have authority over your own body, you decide how to use it. Keeping in mind it is God's temple. But once you are married, the right of authority is given over to the marriage partner. When you entered marriage, you forfeited your right to exercise authority over your own body. Thus, it is a sin to sexually reject your marriage partner.
Read the Song of Solomon, Proverbs, and the New Testament does address it. Paul says not to withhold intimacy from each other least the other become tempted beyond his/her control. Proverbs has alot to say about sexual temptation. Lots of it in there.
Oh my gosh you sound just like me, I'm not sure. But when you find out will you let me know? Thanks.
A wife who wants sex all the time.
I think the Bible refers to that as a ';Miracle';
Praise the Lord
1 Corinthians 7: 1-7
Proverbs 5: 18-20
i believe the answer of Paul from another answerer was referring to a letter from Paul to the Corinthians in;
1 Corinthians 11: 2-16
hope these help.
Only men are supposed to be satisfied. That's what it says.
I Corinthians 7:2-5
2 nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.
3 Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence; and likewise also the wife unto the husband.
4The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband:and likewise also the husband hath not power over his own body, but the wife.
5 Defraud ye not one the other except it be with consent for a ';short'; time ..........and come together again that satan tempt you not for your inconsistency.
In the book of I Corinthians 7:3, the Bible says that we should 'Defraud ye not one the other except it be consent for a time...'. Basically, it goes on to say that we should not 'with hold' from each other lest we fall into temptation. I'm sure ya'll can work out a 'happy medium' tho.
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Read 1 Corinthians 7--it basically says you are not to deprive one another (sexual relations is implied) unless you are devoting yourself to fasting and prayer, and that your bodies belong to each other.
Josh is so wrong in saying the Bible doesn't talk about sex being pleasurable but only for reproduction--I guess he has never read Song of Solomon!What does the bible say about keeping your spouse sexually satsified?
your husband must be gay. if i had a wife who wanted sex more often than me it would be heaven
the bible doesnt discuss sex as a pleasurable thing, only as a tool to concieve children. the pope wont even let catholics use condoms. if your trying to convince your husband that you need more sex, the bible probably isnt your best bet
nothing, there is nothing at all in the Bible about having sex. the notion of women being satisfied sexually is a very new one that didn't come to light till after the Kinsey report. I think you should talk to your husband and let him know you feel, what's the worst that could happen.
it does say in the new testament (i think it was paul) that you're not supposed to withhold sex from one another. sorry i dont know the verse off the top of my head, but it's one of the sections where he talks about marriage and stuff. there's a few of them.
Well, I cannot recall exactly, but in several places the Bible does mention sex. The Song of Solomon is a love story. Also mentioned are God's wishes that believers do not withhold children from His Kingdom (and how do we get children???) and that children are a blessing. And what other posters have said.
Husband not normal if he never wants sex...no offense.
';And so the day came to pass that a decree went out. And it spake of keeping thy spouse satisfied in all manner of sexual ways. In any form and at any time by thy use of battery operated devices, latex products and manual stimulation. Surely thy watching pornography is permissible and was deemed not to be a sin.
But yea, there were those who believed otherwise and felt that watching such and touching thyself in an impure manner was indeed a sin. And there was much wailing and gnashing of teeth.';
Larry Flint in a letter to the Corinthians
I am sorry I don't know exactly where it is; but I think that St. Paul wrote something along the lines of : ';Husbands, respect and take care of your wives as Jesus takes care of His Church...and Wives, respect your husbands...';
Why don't you Google it?
There must be information you can use...Or ask your pastor or priest about it. Good luck.
Sex is a wonderful gift from God, but many people misuse it or abuse it.
BTW....Big Daddy's answer made me laugh so much!!!
How witty !!!
He might be cheating on you if he don't want sex with you anymore. You should get a back bone and ask him why hes not wanting it anymore.
Maybe he is getting sex in different ways... Not to make you upset or anything, but that is usually the case.
I don't know about the 2nd testament Bible, but in the Torah, it doesn't say anything.
And why would you want to consult the Bible on sex advice? Ewww.
to be honest with you, you should get a bible and go to songs of songs and it might help you with your problems...
I don't know what the bible says but I don't think anyone should go without and it is the responsibility of the other spouse to insure that they make the other one happy, even when they don't want to.
Your hubby has libido issues and should see a doc because it could be medical. Is he overweight, high blood pressure, stressed, etc.? Or have him smoke a bowl of weed! It will relax him and get him worked up.
Your husband has what most men want, that is a wife who wants sex. You're a cool chick, keep it up and get him to a doc.
nada, zip, zilch, zero, nothing
sex is to be use to make children only is what it's purpose is for !!! And why don't u look up what the Bible says instead of ridiculing others answers ?? Don't have 1? Go to the library !! Go to wal-mart get a real nice 1 for $10 !! QUit being hateful !:)d
1 corinthians 7:3-5 talks about how men and women are suppose to have sex with one another as long as it does not interfering with his time (God) but verse 6 says that he speaks this with permission and that is not a commandment
1 Corinthians 7:3 (NKJV) Let the husband render to his wife the affection due her, and likewise also the wife to her husband.
The word ';affection'; is the Greek word eunoia, which mean: ';kindness; conjugal duty, benevolence, good will';. And the word ';due'; is opheilo, which means: ';to owe; fig. to be under obligation (ought, must, should); be bound.';
Listen carefully believers; When you get married, you become obligated to meet the physical needs of your spouse. Marriage is no place for celibacy. You are not more spiritual if you abstain from sex in your marriage; you are, in fact in sin.
What this verse clearly teaches is that the responsibility of the husband is to pay what he owes to his wife. And the responsibility of the wife is to pay what she owes to her husband. She is to pay her debt. Almost all marriage problems can be traced to this cause. This commandment is not obeyed by many husbands and wives.
What is the duty of the husband? Paul tells us very plainly in:
Ephesians 5:25 (NKJV) ';Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her,';
The general obligation is that I am to pay to my spouse what I owe them. I am to fulfill my duty as a spouse. Now there is a specific obligation, and it is found in verses:
1 Corinthians 7:4-5 (NKJV) The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. And likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. 5 Do not deprive one another except with consent for a time, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again so that Satan does not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
Our obligation is stated very simply, it is given to us in the first phrase of verse 5. ';Do not deprive one another';, the word ';deprive'; is the Greek word, apostereo, which is a compound verb that comes from ';apo,';which means: ';from,'; and ';stereo'; which means: ';to deprive, or keep back.'; The compound word means to deprive another of what belongs to him or her. The verb ';deprive'; is in the present tense and could be translated ';Stop depriving one another.'; The object is the body which belongs to the spouse in the marital union. What Paul is saying is that you do not have the right to deprive your marriage partner of their conjugal rights. You do not have the right to deprive them of their rights within a physical relationship in marriage. It is not enough for us to say that sex is a marital privilege. It is that, but it is also a sacred responsibility, it is a debt that we owe.
When you are single, you do have authority over your own body, you decide how to use it. Keeping in mind it is God's temple. But once you are married, the right of authority is given over to the marriage partner. When you entered marriage, you forfeited your right to exercise authority over your own body. Thus, it is a sin to sexually reject your marriage partner.
Read the Song of Solomon, Proverbs, and the New Testament does address it. Paul says not to withhold intimacy from each other least the other become tempted beyond his/her control. Proverbs has alot to say about sexual temptation. Lots of it in there.
Oh my gosh you sound just like me, I'm not sure. But when you find out will you let me know? Thanks.
A wife who wants sex all the time.
I think the Bible refers to that as a ';Miracle';
Praise the Lord
1 Corinthians 7: 1-7
Proverbs 5: 18-20
i believe the answer of Paul from another answerer was referring to a letter from Paul to the Corinthians in;
1 Corinthians 11: 2-16
hope these help.
Only men are supposed to be satisfied. That's what it says.
I Corinthians 7:2-5
2 nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.
3 Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence; and likewise also the wife unto the husband.
4The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband:and likewise also the husband hath not power over his own body, but the wife.
5 Defraud ye not one the other except it be with consent for a ';short'; time ..........and come together again that satan tempt you not for your inconsistency.
In the book of I Corinthians 7:3, the Bible says that we should 'Defraud ye not one the other except it be consent for a time...'. Basically, it goes on to say that we should not 'with hold' from each other lest we fall into temptation. I'm sure ya'll can work out a 'happy medium' tho.
Best wishes and God bless!
Survey: How many times, on average, does your spouse or lover fart per day?
lmao idk. ask him not me haha
Should a spouse get half if he or she lets themselfs go and stop looking like they did when they got married?
women always wants their man to do the things they did when they first started dating, but have no problem not looking like they did when they first started dating!
should you be able to walk away if he or she does not keep there end of the agreement adn that is doing everything you need to do to take care of your spouse!Should a spouse get half if he or she lets themselfs go and stop looking like they did when they got married?
Should a woman dump her man if he can't get it up? They say, half of men at 45 can't get it up. Should a spouse get half if he or she lets themselfs go and stop looking like they did when they got married?
nobody ever looks the way they did when they first started dating 5 or 10 years after the fact - wtf? if being frozen in time is an issue for you, put it in a f*cking prenup BEFORE you get married - that the person must remain eternally 25 years old (or whatever), can never age, must maintain an identical weight etc.
i promise you, however, if you can find someone to make time stop, they are going to want to be with someone who still looks 25 - 10, 20, 30 years later - and that means you won't be able to keep them.
YES! I have personally been with a guy who 'let himself go' after being with me. He basically gained about 80 lbs in a year. He weighed around 280 when I dumped him....Sad.....It was causing him health problems and being so fat pretty much made him impotent. Since he clearly loved FOOD more than he loved ME I decided to break it off. There were many other reasons in the relationship for me leaving him. Him not caring about his looks or health was a HUGE factor! To me, if someone does this, they don't love you or themselves! It's bound to lead to other issues in any relationship, especially if it's really bad!
When you said your vows did you say ';through only the prettiest of times?';
I doubt it. Life changes...People change! It's not fair for you to judge someone on how you WANT them to look! Actions are alot easier to change than appearances. Sounds to me like your being a little selfish!
What agreement is this. I never heard marriage vows at a wedding that said ';to have and to hold, through sickness and health, and looks must stay the same.'; This sounds very selfish, and unforgiving.
hmm i might like this idea..my bf has gained about 100 lbs and lost most of his hair and stopped going to the dentist. think i have a case?
Sure, and I suppose no 50-yo man has ever had hair loss or a beer belly. Nah, they all look the way they did when they were 20 and playing quarterback in their college football team.
But you vowed to be married ';for better or for worst';.
Well, when we get married we say something like, ';for better or for worse'; and ';until death put us apart'; no .... ';for looking good if not better'; or '; until your fatness/ugliness, etc put us apart';.....
Think about it..... and read below:
Traditional Wedding Vows 1:
I, (name), take you (name), to be my (wife/husband), to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do us part.
Traditional Wedding Vows 2:
I, (name), take you, (name), to be my [opt: lawfully wedded] (husband/wife), my constant friend, my faithful partner and my love from this day forward. In the presence of God, our family and friends, I offer you my solemn vow to be your faithful partner in sickness and in health, in good times and in bad, and in joy as well as in sorrow. I promise to love you unconditionally, to support you in your goals, to honor and respect you, to laugh with you and cry with you, and to cherish you for as long as we both shall live.
Traditional Wedding Vows 3 (traditional civil ceremony vows):
(Name), I take you to be my lawfully wedded (husband/wife). Before these witnesses I vow to love you and care for you as long as we both shall live. I take you with all your faults and your strengths as I offer myself to you with my faults and strengths. I will help you when you need help, and I will turn to you when I need help. I choose you as the person with whom I will spend my life.
Traditional Wedding Vows 4:
I, (name), take you, (name), to be my beloved (wife/husband), to have and to hold you, to honor you, to treasure you, to be at your side in sorrow and in joy, in the good times, and in the bad, and to love and cherish you always. I promise you this from my heart, for all the days of my life.
should you be able to walk away if he or she does not keep there end of the agreement adn that is doing everything you need to do to take care of your spouse!Should a spouse get half if he or she lets themselfs go and stop looking like they did when they got married?
Should a woman dump her man if he can't get it up? They say, half of men at 45 can't get it up. Should a spouse get half if he or she lets themselfs go and stop looking like they did when they got married?
nobody ever looks the way they did when they first started dating 5 or 10 years after the fact - wtf? if being frozen in time is an issue for you, put it in a f*cking prenup BEFORE you get married - that the person must remain eternally 25 years old (or whatever), can never age, must maintain an identical weight etc.
i promise you, however, if you can find someone to make time stop, they are going to want to be with someone who still looks 25 - 10, 20, 30 years later - and that means you won't be able to keep them.
YES! I have personally been with a guy who 'let himself go' after being with me. He basically gained about 80 lbs in a year. He weighed around 280 when I dumped him....Sad.....It was causing him health problems and being so fat pretty much made him impotent. Since he clearly loved FOOD more than he loved ME I decided to break it off. There were many other reasons in the relationship for me leaving him. Him not caring about his looks or health was a HUGE factor! To me, if someone does this, they don't love you or themselves! It's bound to lead to other issues in any relationship, especially if it's really bad!
When you said your vows did you say ';through only the prettiest of times?';
I doubt it. Life changes...People change! It's not fair for you to judge someone on how you WANT them to look! Actions are alot easier to change than appearances. Sounds to me like your being a little selfish!
What agreement is this. I never heard marriage vows at a wedding that said ';to have and to hold, through sickness and health, and looks must stay the same.'; This sounds very selfish, and unforgiving.
hmm i might like this idea..my bf has gained about 100 lbs and lost most of his hair and stopped going to the dentist. think i have a case?
Sure, and I suppose no 50-yo man has ever had hair loss or a beer belly. Nah, they all look the way they did when they were 20 and playing quarterback in their college football team.
But you vowed to be married ';for better or for worst';.
Well, when we get married we say something like, ';for better or for worse'; and ';until death put us apart'; no .... ';for looking good if not better'; or '; until your fatness/ugliness, etc put us apart';.....
Think about it..... and read below:
Traditional Wedding Vows 1:
I, (name), take you (name), to be my (wife/husband), to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do us part.
Traditional Wedding Vows 2:
I, (name), take you, (name), to be my [opt: lawfully wedded] (husband/wife), my constant friend, my faithful partner and my love from this day forward. In the presence of God, our family and friends, I offer you my solemn vow to be your faithful partner in sickness and in health, in good times and in bad, and in joy as well as in sorrow. I promise to love you unconditionally, to support you in your goals, to honor and respect you, to laugh with you and cry with you, and to cherish you for as long as we both shall live.
Traditional Wedding Vows 3 (traditional civil ceremony vows):
(Name), I take you to be my lawfully wedded (husband/wife). Before these witnesses I vow to love you and care for you as long as we both shall live. I take you with all your faults and your strengths as I offer myself to you with my faults and strengths. I will help you when you need help, and I will turn to you when I need help. I choose you as the person with whom I will spend my life.
Traditional Wedding Vows 4:
I, (name), take you, (name), to be my beloved (wife/husband), to have and to hold you, to honor you, to treasure you, to be at your side in sorrow and in joy, in the good times, and in the bad, and to love and cherish you always. I promise you this from my heart, for all the days of my life.
What would you do if you caught your spouse cheating on you?
I have heard this question so many times and I want to hear what you will say. So what would you do?What would you do if you caught your spouse cheating on you?
A trial separation is good. I've been there. The feeling of betrayal is pretty intense and doesn't go away quickly...but it's a time for the person who got betrayed to step away for awhile, find themselves, regain their footing and see where they want life to take them.What would you do if you caught your spouse cheating on you?
If that is a right ';catching'; then I would join. And later we could discuss what to do.
Sorry but I would go absolutely spare.....I'm not sure what I would do exactly....I hope whatever it was ..I would retain my dignity.....
manslaugheter,1,2,3-vehic homicide,posion,arson,1st degree murder,2nd degree,3degree.........murdur was the case they gave me
OVERRRRRRRRRRRRR
divorce. and never look back when this happens cheater will never change only get worse
Depends on what you mean by being caught. If I saw him I would walk up to him and her and say hello, introduce myself and then go home, pack and leave.
If I found out while at home I would ask him why (probably) then I would pack and leave. I definately would not have a screaming fit or crying in front of him or any of that I would try to react as calmly as I could because there is nothing I can do that would change what happened. After I left I would file for divorce.
tellher to get up and cleanthe friggin house because s**t whatevers his i own half of so i might as well use her too!! no seriously i just did and he's like so never seeing me again.
leave him
leave her
There would be no white flag upon my door.
I would leave him most definitely. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
wow not sure what i would do. i have been cheated on but i actually never caught them together. I guess i would just panic and think later i dont know. Mabye join them who knows.
If she was attractive, join in!
A trial separation is good. I've been there. The feeling of betrayal is pretty intense and doesn't go away quickly...but it's a time for the person who got betrayed to step away for awhile, find themselves, regain their footing and see where they want life to take them.What would you do if you caught your spouse cheating on you?
If that is a right ';catching'; then I would join. And later we could discuss what to do.
Sorry but I would go absolutely spare.....I'm not sure what I would do exactly....I hope whatever it was ..I would retain my dignity.....
manslaugheter,1,2,3-vehic homicide,posion,arson,1st degree murder,2nd degree,3degree.........murdur was the case they gave me
OVERRRRRRRRRRRRR
divorce. and never look back when this happens cheater will never change only get worse
Depends on what you mean by being caught. If I saw him I would walk up to him and her and say hello, introduce myself and then go home, pack and leave.
If I found out while at home I would ask him why (probably) then I would pack and leave. I definately would not have a screaming fit or crying in front of him or any of that I would try to react as calmly as I could because there is nothing I can do that would change what happened. After I left I would file for divorce.
tellher to get up and cleanthe friggin house because s**t whatevers his i own half of so i might as well use her too!! no seriously i just did and he's like so never seeing me again.
leave him
leave her
There would be no white flag upon my door.
I would leave him most definitely. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
wow not sure what i would do. i have been cheated on but i actually never caught them together. I guess i would just panic and think later i dont know. Mabye join them who knows.
If she was attractive, join in!
Can a spouse attend MENSA social gatherings with a member?
I assume they wouldn't go to weekly or mothly normal meetings, but can they attend other events? Such as game nights or social nights with food/drinks? I want to join but only if my husband can participate with me sometimes. I qualified but this will be the deciding factor in my choice. Can anyone shed some light on the subject? Are you a member and your spouse is not? How does that work? I appreciate any insight.Can a spouse attend MENSA social gatherings with a member?
I was a member in Los Angeles and almost every week I attended a function with a friend who was not a member. Many functions charge a small fee for the cost of food and may charge more for non members.
When I moved to a small city the social gatherings almost vanished. I finally quit since the fee was too high and I got nothing in return.
I was a member in Los Angeles and almost every week I attended a function with a friend who was not a member. Many functions charge a small fee for the cost of food and may charge more for non members.
When I moved to a small city the social gatherings almost vanished. I finally quit since the fee was too high and I got nothing in return.
Did you ever cook a meal that your spouse went absolutely crazy over?
Mine is long spaghetti with cheese garlic breadDid you ever cook a meal that your spouse went absolutely crazy over?
My husband does like most of my food. I try to make something differant some part of the world every night so we do not get bored.Did you ever cook a meal that your spouse went absolutely crazy over?
my husband loves breadsticks. They are super easy to make. Jiffy pizza crust mix, water, butter, garlic powder.
prepare the pizza crust according to instructions.
You let it rise 5 minutes.
put it on a greased pizza pan like you would a pizza crust.
cover it with melted butter and garlic power. (the amount depends on personal preference)
bake in a 350 degree oven for 12 -15 minutes.
cut into pieces.
You can use pizza sauce as a dip.
My husband is a chef so he pretty much appreciates anything anyone cooks for him as usually he is the one slaving over a hot stove. I can't cook like he does but he loves it when I make roast chicken stuffed with lemon and herbs and roasted sweet potatoes and squash
NO BUT HER MOM ABSOLUTELY LOVED MY SPAGHETTI WITH MEAT SAUCE AND FRIED CHICKEN ON THE SIDE. DON'T ASK ME HOW I CAME UP WITH IT I WAS STARVING I GUESS AND I STILL LUV IT TO THIS DAY FYI HER MOM WAS CAUCASION LOL..
Grilled portabella mushroom caps with a bit of bleu cheese sprinkled on the last minute or so, wild rice, fresh asparagus spears steamed over lemon water, a warmed whole wheat bread and rosemary, garlic and olive oil marinated and grilled pork loins.
My homemade cinnamon rolls. People joke that those cinnamon rolls were why he asked me to marry him. It'll be our 30th wedding anniversary this year.
I cooked a pineapple cobbler the other night. It disappeared.
I also love to make Pesto.
Well I'm still trying to be better at it. I don't know...most of the the time he'll say ';Mmm honey this is really good';, but a few times he's told me it wasn't very good. Okay once or twice he'll rave of the Fresh corned beef or my Meatloaf. = )
my hubby likes my cooking very much as well; but recently his favorites have been my fresh LemonPepper-Garlic chicken over steamed rice, and for some reason, my Pita Pizzas. They're incredibly simple and require almost no work...yet he absolute raves over them.
my favorite meal that he makes is Pot Roast with baby carrots and potatoes. :D
We call it Platter Meal: Grilled yogurt marinated chicken and flank steak, flatbreads, rice and beans, fresh cut veggies (tomatoes, cucumbers, olives, and peppers), chickpea and eggplant curry. It takes a while to make but it's so tasty and good for you!
mine was cordune blue chicken brests stuffed with ham and swiss chees
Beef vegetable stew. He loves it.
I don't see how, but he loves every single thing I cook for him. His absolute favorite is a german dish my mother used to make with sausage, potatoes, saurkraut, vinegar and caraway seeds. Sounds awful yes? It's delicious! His other favorites are my own Pami's Steak Stir Fry and Mexican Chicken. You have to appreciate a man that can love and appreciate everything you do! :)
My husband does like most of my food. I try to make something differant some part of the world every night so we do not get bored.Did you ever cook a meal that your spouse went absolutely crazy over?
my husband loves breadsticks. They are super easy to make. Jiffy pizza crust mix, water, butter, garlic powder.
prepare the pizza crust according to instructions.
You let it rise 5 minutes.
put it on a greased pizza pan like you would a pizza crust.
cover it with melted butter and garlic power. (the amount depends on personal preference)
bake in a 350 degree oven for 12 -15 minutes.
cut into pieces.
You can use pizza sauce as a dip.
My husband is a chef so he pretty much appreciates anything anyone cooks for him as usually he is the one slaving over a hot stove. I can't cook like he does but he loves it when I make roast chicken stuffed with lemon and herbs and roasted sweet potatoes and squash
NO BUT HER MOM ABSOLUTELY LOVED MY SPAGHETTI WITH MEAT SAUCE AND FRIED CHICKEN ON THE SIDE. DON'T ASK ME HOW I CAME UP WITH IT I WAS STARVING I GUESS AND I STILL LUV IT TO THIS DAY FYI HER MOM WAS CAUCASION LOL..
Grilled portabella mushroom caps with a bit of bleu cheese sprinkled on the last minute or so, wild rice, fresh asparagus spears steamed over lemon water, a warmed whole wheat bread and rosemary, garlic and olive oil marinated and grilled pork loins.
My homemade cinnamon rolls. People joke that those cinnamon rolls were why he asked me to marry him. It'll be our 30th wedding anniversary this year.
I cooked a pineapple cobbler the other night. It disappeared.
I also love to make Pesto.
Well I'm still trying to be better at it. I don't know...most of the the time he'll say ';Mmm honey this is really good';, but a few times he's told me it wasn't very good. Okay once or twice he'll rave of the Fresh corned beef or my Meatloaf. = )
my hubby likes my cooking very much as well; but recently his favorites have been my fresh LemonPepper-Garlic chicken over steamed rice, and for some reason, my Pita Pizzas. They're incredibly simple and require almost no work...yet he absolute raves over them.
my favorite meal that he makes is Pot Roast with baby carrots and potatoes. :D
We call it Platter Meal: Grilled yogurt marinated chicken and flank steak, flatbreads, rice and beans, fresh cut veggies (tomatoes, cucumbers, olives, and peppers), chickpea and eggplant curry. It takes a while to make but it's so tasty and good for you!
mine was cordune blue chicken brests stuffed with ham and swiss chees
Beef vegetable stew. He loves it.
I don't see how, but he loves every single thing I cook for him. His absolute favorite is a german dish my mother used to make with sausage, potatoes, saurkraut, vinegar and caraway seeds. Sounds awful yes? It's delicious! His other favorites are my own Pami's Steak Stir Fry and Mexican Chicken. You have to appreciate a man that can love and appreciate everything you do! :)
What does the bible say about keeping your spouse sexually satsified?
if you know, please tell where and what it says. thanks so much! the reason i want to know is my husband never wants sex and i always want it. i'd just like to know what the bible says about this, and if we should meet in the middle or if i am suppose to go on unhappy about it?What does the bible say about keeping your spouse sexually satsified?
Read 1 Corinthians 7--it basically says you are not to deprive one another (sexual relations is implied) unless you are devoting yourself to fasting and prayer, and that your bodies belong to each other.
Josh is so wrong in saying the Bible doesn't talk about sex being pleasurable but only for reproduction--I guess he has never read Song of Solomon!What does the bible say about keeping your spouse sexually satsified?
your husband must be gay. if i had a wife who wanted sex more often than me it would be heaven
the bible doesnt discuss sex as a pleasurable thing, only as a tool to concieve children. the pope wont even let catholics use condoms. if your trying to convince your husband that you need more sex, the bible probably isnt your best bet
nothing, there is nothing at all in the Bible about having sex. the notion of women being satisfied sexually is a very new one that didn't come to light till after the Kinsey report. I think you should talk to your husband and let him know you feel, what's the worst that could happen.
it does say in the new testament (i think it was paul) that you're not supposed to withhold sex from one another. sorry i dont know the verse off the top of my head, but it's one of the sections where he talks about marriage and stuff. there's a few of them.
Well, I cannot recall exactly, but in several places the Bible does mention sex. The Song of Solomon is a love story. Also mentioned are God's wishes that believers do not withhold children from His Kingdom (and how do we get children???) and that children are a blessing. And what other posters have said.
Husband not normal if he never wants sex...no offense.
';And so the day came to pass that a decree went out. And it spake of keeping thy spouse satisfied in all manner of sexual ways. In any form and at any time by thy use of battery operated devices, latex products and manual stimulation. Surely thy watching pornography is permissible and was deemed not to be a sin.
But yea, there were those who believed otherwise and felt that watching such and touching thyself in an impure manner was indeed a sin. And there was much wailing and gnashing of teeth.';
Larry Flint in a letter to the Corinthians
I am sorry I don't know exactly where it is; but I think that St. Paul wrote something along the lines of : ';Husbands, respect and take care of your wives as Jesus takes care of His Church...and Wives, respect your husbands...';
Why don't you Google it?
There must be information you can use...Or ask your pastor or priest about it. Good luck.
Sex is a wonderful gift from God, but many people misuse it or abuse it.
BTW....Big Daddy's answer made me laugh so much!!!
How witty !!!
He might be cheating on you if he don't want sex with you anymore. You should get a back bone and ask him why hes not wanting it anymore.
Maybe he is getting sex in different ways... Not to make you upset or anything, but that is usually the case.
I don't know about the 2nd testament Bible, but in the Torah, it doesn't say anything.
And why would you want to consult the Bible on sex advice? Ewww.
to be honest with you, you should get a bible and go to songs of songs and it might help you with your problems...
I don't know what the bible says but I don't think anyone should go without and it is the responsibility of the other spouse to insure that they make the other one happy, even when they don't want to.
Your hubby has libido issues and should see a doc because it could be medical. Is he overweight, high blood pressure, stressed, etc.? Or have him smoke a bowl of weed! It will relax him and get him worked up.
Your husband has what most men want, that is a wife who wants sex. You're a cool chick, keep it up and get him to a doc.
nada, zip, zilch, zero, nothing
sex is to be use to make children only is what it's purpose is for !!! And why don't u look up what the Bible says instead of ridiculing others answers ?? Don't have 1? Go to the library !! Go to wal-mart get a real nice 1 for $10 !! QUit being hateful !:)d
1 corinthians 7:3-5 talks about how men and women are suppose to have sex with one another as long as it does not interfering with his time (God) but verse 6 says that he speaks this with permission and that is not a commandment
1 Corinthians 7:3 (NKJV) Let the husband render to his wife the affection due her, and likewise also the wife to her husband.
The word ';affection'; is the Greek word eunoia, which mean: ';kindness; conjugal duty, benevolence, good will';. And the word ';due'; is opheilo, which means: ';to owe; fig. to be under obligation (ought, must, should); be bound.';
Listen carefully believers; When you get married, you become obligated to meet the physical needs of your spouse. Marriage is no place for celibacy. You are not more spiritual if you abstain from sex in your marriage; you are, in fact in sin.
What this verse clearly teaches is that the responsibility of the husband is to pay what he owes to his wife. And the responsibility of the wife is to pay what she owes to her husband. She is to pay her debt. Almost all marriage problems can be traced to this cause. This commandment is not obeyed by many husbands and wives.
What is the duty of the husband? Paul tells us very plainly in:
Ephesians 5:25 (NKJV) ';Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her,';
The general obligation is that I am to pay to my spouse what I owe them. I am to fulfill my duty as a spouse. Now there is a specific obligation, and it is found in verses:
1 Corinthians 7:4-5 (NKJV) The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. And likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. 5 Do not deprive one another except with consent for a time, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again so that Satan does not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
Our obligation is stated very simply, it is given to us in the first phrase of verse 5. ';Do not deprive one another';, the word ';deprive'; is the Greek word, apostereo, which is a compound verb that comes from ';apo,';which means: ';from,'; and ';stereo'; which means: ';to deprive, or keep back.'; The compound word means to deprive another of what belongs to him or her. The verb ';deprive'; is in the present tense and could be translated ';Stop depriving one another.'; The object is the body which belongs to the spouse in the marital union. What Paul is saying is that you do not have the right to deprive your marriage partner of their conjugal rights. You do not have the right to deprive them of their rights within a physical relationship in marriage. It is not enough for us to say that sex is a marital privilege. It is that, but it is also a sacred responsibility, it is a debt that we owe.
When you are single, you do have authority over your own body, you decide how to use it. Keeping in mind it is God's temple. But once you are married, the right of authority is given over to the marriage partner. When you entered marriage, you forfeited your right to exercise authority over your own body. Thus, it is a sin to sexually reject your marriage partner.
Read the Song of Solomon, Proverbs, and the New Testament does address it. Paul says not to withhold intimacy from each other least the other become tempted beyond his/her control. Proverbs has alot to say about sexual temptation. Lots of it in there.
Oh my gosh you sound just like me, I'm not sure. But when you find out will you let me know? Thanks.
A wife who wants sex all the time.
I think the Bible refers to that as a ';Miracle';
Praise the Lord
1 Corinthians 7: 1-7
Proverbs 5: 18-20
i believe the answer of Paul from another answerer was referring to a letter from Paul to the Corinthians in;
1 Corinthians 11: 2-16
hope these help.
Only men are supposed to be satisfied. That's what it says.
I Corinthians 7:2-5
2 nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.
3 Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence; and likewise also the wife unto the husband.
4The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband:and likewise also the husband hath not power over his own body, but the wife.
5 Defraud ye not one the other except it be with consent for a ';short'; time ..........and come together again that satan tempt you not for your inconsistency.
In the book of I Corinthians 7:3, the Bible says that we should 'Defraud ye not one the other except it be consent for a time...'. Basically, it goes on to say that we should not 'with hold' from each other lest we fall into temptation. I'm sure ya'll can work out a 'happy medium' tho.
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Read 1 Corinthians 7--it basically says you are not to deprive one another (sexual relations is implied) unless you are devoting yourself to fasting and prayer, and that your bodies belong to each other.
Josh is so wrong in saying the Bible doesn't talk about sex being pleasurable but only for reproduction--I guess he has never read Song of Solomon!What does the bible say about keeping your spouse sexually satsified?
your husband must be gay. if i had a wife who wanted sex more often than me it would be heaven
the bible doesnt discuss sex as a pleasurable thing, only as a tool to concieve children. the pope wont even let catholics use condoms. if your trying to convince your husband that you need more sex, the bible probably isnt your best bet
nothing, there is nothing at all in the Bible about having sex. the notion of women being satisfied sexually is a very new one that didn't come to light till after the Kinsey report. I think you should talk to your husband and let him know you feel, what's the worst that could happen.
it does say in the new testament (i think it was paul) that you're not supposed to withhold sex from one another. sorry i dont know the verse off the top of my head, but it's one of the sections where he talks about marriage and stuff. there's a few of them.
Well, I cannot recall exactly, but in several places the Bible does mention sex. The Song of Solomon is a love story. Also mentioned are God's wishes that believers do not withhold children from His Kingdom (and how do we get children???) and that children are a blessing. And what other posters have said.
Husband not normal if he never wants sex...no offense.
';And so the day came to pass that a decree went out. And it spake of keeping thy spouse satisfied in all manner of sexual ways. In any form and at any time by thy use of battery operated devices, latex products and manual stimulation. Surely thy watching pornography is permissible and was deemed not to be a sin.
But yea, there were those who believed otherwise and felt that watching such and touching thyself in an impure manner was indeed a sin. And there was much wailing and gnashing of teeth.';
Larry Flint in a letter to the Corinthians
I am sorry I don't know exactly where it is; but I think that St. Paul wrote something along the lines of : ';Husbands, respect and take care of your wives as Jesus takes care of His Church...and Wives, respect your husbands...';
Why don't you Google it?
There must be information you can use...Or ask your pastor or priest about it. Good luck.
Sex is a wonderful gift from God, but many people misuse it or abuse it.
BTW....Big Daddy's answer made me laugh so much!!!
How witty !!!
He might be cheating on you if he don't want sex with you anymore. You should get a back bone and ask him why hes not wanting it anymore.
Maybe he is getting sex in different ways... Not to make you upset or anything, but that is usually the case.
I don't know about the 2nd testament Bible, but in the Torah, it doesn't say anything.
And why would you want to consult the Bible on sex advice? Ewww.
to be honest with you, you should get a bible and go to songs of songs and it might help you with your problems...
I don't know what the bible says but I don't think anyone should go without and it is the responsibility of the other spouse to insure that they make the other one happy, even when they don't want to.
Your hubby has libido issues and should see a doc because it could be medical. Is he overweight, high blood pressure, stressed, etc.? Or have him smoke a bowl of weed! It will relax him and get him worked up.
Your husband has what most men want, that is a wife who wants sex. You're a cool chick, keep it up and get him to a doc.
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sex is to be use to make children only is what it's purpose is for !!! And why don't u look up what the Bible says instead of ridiculing others answers ?? Don't have 1? Go to the library !! Go to wal-mart get a real nice 1 for $10 !! QUit being hateful !:)d
1 corinthians 7:3-5 talks about how men and women are suppose to have sex with one another as long as it does not interfering with his time (God) but verse 6 says that he speaks this with permission and that is not a commandment
1 Corinthians 7:3 (NKJV) Let the husband render to his wife the affection due her, and likewise also the wife to her husband.
The word ';affection'; is the Greek word eunoia, which mean: ';kindness; conjugal duty, benevolence, good will';. And the word ';due'; is opheilo, which means: ';to owe; fig. to be under obligation (ought, must, should); be bound.';
Listen carefully believers; When you get married, you become obligated to meet the physical needs of your spouse. Marriage is no place for celibacy. You are not more spiritual if you abstain from sex in your marriage; you are, in fact in sin.
What this verse clearly teaches is that the responsibility of the husband is to pay what he owes to his wife. And the responsibility of the wife is to pay what she owes to her husband. She is to pay her debt. Almost all marriage problems can be traced to this cause. This commandment is not obeyed by many husbands and wives.
What is the duty of the husband? Paul tells us very plainly in:
Ephesians 5:25 (NKJV) ';Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her,';
The general obligation is that I am to pay to my spouse what I owe them. I am to fulfill my duty as a spouse. Now there is a specific obligation, and it is found in verses:
1 Corinthians 7:4-5 (NKJV) The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. And likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. 5 Do not deprive one another except with consent for a time, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again so that Satan does not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
Our obligation is stated very simply, it is given to us in the first phrase of verse 5. ';Do not deprive one another';, the word ';deprive'; is the Greek word, apostereo, which is a compound verb that comes from ';apo,';which means: ';from,'; and ';stereo'; which means: ';to deprive, or keep back.'; The compound word means to deprive another of what belongs to him or her. The verb ';deprive'; is in the present tense and could be translated ';Stop depriving one another.'; The object is the body which belongs to the spouse in the marital union. What Paul is saying is that you do not have the right to deprive your marriage partner of their conjugal rights. You do not have the right to deprive them of their rights within a physical relationship in marriage. It is not enough for us to say that sex is a marital privilege. It is that, but it is also a sacred responsibility, it is a debt that we owe.
When you are single, you do have authority over your own body, you decide how to use it. Keeping in mind it is God's temple. But once you are married, the right of authority is given over to the marriage partner. When you entered marriage, you forfeited your right to exercise authority over your own body. Thus, it is a sin to sexually reject your marriage partner.
Read the Song of Solomon, Proverbs, and the New Testament does address it. Paul says not to withhold intimacy from each other least the other become tempted beyond his/her control. Proverbs has alot to say about sexual temptation. Lots of it in there.
Oh my gosh you sound just like me, I'm not sure. But when you find out will you let me know? Thanks.
A wife who wants sex all the time.
I think the Bible refers to that as a ';Miracle';
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1 Corinthians 7: 1-7
Proverbs 5: 18-20
i believe the answer of Paul from another answerer was referring to a letter from Paul to the Corinthians in;
1 Corinthians 11: 2-16
hope these help.
Only men are supposed to be satisfied. That's what it says.
I Corinthians 7:2-5
2 nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.
3 Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence; and likewise also the wife unto the husband.
4The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband:and likewise also the husband hath not power over his own body, but the wife.
5 Defraud ye not one the other except it be with consent for a ';short'; time ..........and come together again that satan tempt you not for your inconsistency.
In the book of I Corinthians 7:3, the Bible says that we should 'Defraud ye not one the other except it be consent for a time...'. Basically, it goes on to say that we should not 'with hold' from each other lest we fall into temptation. I'm sure ya'll can work out a 'happy medium' tho.
Best wishes and God bless!
Survey: How many times, on average, does your spouse or lover fart per day?
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Should a spouse get half if he or she lets themselfs go and stop looking like they did when they got married?
women always wants their man to do the things they did when they first started dating, but have no problem not looking like they did when they first started dating!
should you be able to walk away if he or she does not keep there end of the agreement adn that is doing everything you need to do to take care of your spouse!Should a spouse get half if he or she lets themselfs go and stop looking like they did when they got married?
Should a woman dump her man if he can't get it up? They say, half of men at 45 can't get it up. Should a spouse get half if he or she lets themselfs go and stop looking like they did when they got married?
nobody ever looks the way they did when they first started dating 5 or 10 years after the fact - wtf? if being frozen in time is an issue for you, put it in a f*cking prenup BEFORE you get married - that the person must remain eternally 25 years old (or whatever), can never age, must maintain an identical weight etc.
i promise you, however, if you can find someone to make time stop, they are going to want to be with someone who still looks 25 - 10, 20, 30 years later - and that means you won't be able to keep them.
YES! I have personally been with a guy who 'let himself go' after being with me. He basically gained about 80 lbs in a year. He weighed around 280 when I dumped him....Sad.....It was causing him health problems and being so fat pretty much made him impotent. Since he clearly loved FOOD more than he loved ME I decided to break it off. There were many other reasons in the relationship for me leaving him. Him not caring about his looks or health was a HUGE factor! To me, if someone does this, they don't love you or themselves! It's bound to lead to other issues in any relationship, especially if it's really bad!
When you said your vows did you say ';through only the prettiest of times?';
I doubt it. Life changes...People change! It's not fair for you to judge someone on how you WANT them to look! Actions are alot easier to change than appearances. Sounds to me like your being a little selfish!
What agreement is this. I never heard marriage vows at a wedding that said ';to have and to hold, through sickness and health, and looks must stay the same.'; This sounds very selfish, and unforgiving.
hmm i might like this idea..my bf has gained about 100 lbs and lost most of his hair and stopped going to the dentist. think i have a case?
Sure, and I suppose no 50-yo man has ever had hair loss or a beer belly. Nah, they all look the way they did when they were 20 and playing quarterback in their college football team.
But you vowed to be married ';for better or for worst';.
Well, when we get married we say something like, ';for better or for worse'; and ';until death put us apart'; no .... ';for looking good if not better'; or '; until your fatness/ugliness, etc put us apart';.....
Think about it..... and read below:
Traditional Wedding Vows 1:
I, (name), take you (name), to be my (wife/husband), to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do us part.
Traditional Wedding Vows 2:
I, (name), take you, (name), to be my [opt: lawfully wedded] (husband/wife), my constant friend, my faithful partner and my love from this day forward. In the presence of God, our family and friends, I offer you my solemn vow to be your faithful partner in sickness and in health, in good times and in bad, and in joy as well as in sorrow. I promise to love you unconditionally, to support you in your goals, to honor and respect you, to laugh with you and cry with you, and to cherish you for as long as we both shall live.
Traditional Wedding Vows 3 (traditional civil ceremony vows):
(Name), I take you to be my lawfully wedded (husband/wife). Before these witnesses I vow to love you and care for you as long as we both shall live. I take you with all your faults and your strengths as I offer myself to you with my faults and strengths. I will help you when you need help, and I will turn to you when I need help. I choose you as the person with whom I will spend my life.
Traditional Wedding Vows 4:
I, (name), take you, (name), to be my beloved (wife/husband), to have and to hold you, to honor you, to treasure you, to be at your side in sorrow and in joy, in the good times, and in the bad, and to love and cherish you always. I promise you this from my heart, for all the days of my life.
should you be able to walk away if he or she does not keep there end of the agreement adn that is doing everything you need to do to take care of your spouse!Should a spouse get half if he or she lets themselfs go and stop looking like they did when they got married?
Should a woman dump her man if he can't get it up? They say, half of men at 45 can't get it up. Should a spouse get half if he or she lets themselfs go and stop looking like they did when they got married?
nobody ever looks the way they did when they first started dating 5 or 10 years after the fact - wtf? if being frozen in time is an issue for you, put it in a f*cking prenup BEFORE you get married - that the person must remain eternally 25 years old (or whatever), can never age, must maintain an identical weight etc.
i promise you, however, if you can find someone to make time stop, they are going to want to be with someone who still looks 25 - 10, 20, 30 years later - and that means you won't be able to keep them.
YES! I have personally been with a guy who 'let himself go' after being with me. He basically gained about 80 lbs in a year. He weighed around 280 when I dumped him....Sad.....It was causing him health problems and being so fat pretty much made him impotent. Since he clearly loved FOOD more than he loved ME I decided to break it off. There were many other reasons in the relationship for me leaving him. Him not caring about his looks or health was a HUGE factor! To me, if someone does this, they don't love you or themselves! It's bound to lead to other issues in any relationship, especially if it's really bad!
When you said your vows did you say ';through only the prettiest of times?';
I doubt it. Life changes...People change! It's not fair for you to judge someone on how you WANT them to look! Actions are alot easier to change than appearances. Sounds to me like your being a little selfish!
What agreement is this. I never heard marriage vows at a wedding that said ';to have and to hold, through sickness and health, and looks must stay the same.'; This sounds very selfish, and unforgiving.
hmm i might like this idea..my bf has gained about 100 lbs and lost most of his hair and stopped going to the dentist. think i have a case?
Sure, and I suppose no 50-yo man has ever had hair loss or a beer belly. Nah, they all look the way they did when they were 20 and playing quarterback in their college football team.
But you vowed to be married ';for better or for worst';.
Well, when we get married we say something like, ';for better or for worse'; and ';until death put us apart'; no .... ';for looking good if not better'; or '; until your fatness/ugliness, etc put us apart';.....
Think about it..... and read below:
Traditional Wedding Vows 1:
I, (name), take you (name), to be my (wife/husband), to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do us part.
Traditional Wedding Vows 2:
I, (name), take you, (name), to be my [opt: lawfully wedded] (husband/wife), my constant friend, my faithful partner and my love from this day forward. In the presence of God, our family and friends, I offer you my solemn vow to be your faithful partner in sickness and in health, in good times and in bad, and in joy as well as in sorrow. I promise to love you unconditionally, to support you in your goals, to honor and respect you, to laugh with you and cry with you, and to cherish you for as long as we both shall live.
Traditional Wedding Vows 3 (traditional civil ceremony vows):
(Name), I take you to be my lawfully wedded (husband/wife). Before these witnesses I vow to love you and care for you as long as we both shall live. I take you with all your faults and your strengths as I offer myself to you with my faults and strengths. I will help you when you need help, and I will turn to you when I need help. I choose you as the person with whom I will spend my life.
Traditional Wedding Vows 4:
I, (name), take you, (name), to be my beloved (wife/husband), to have and to hold you, to honor you, to treasure you, to be at your side in sorrow and in joy, in the good times, and in the bad, and to love and cherish you always. I promise you this from my heart, for all the days of my life.
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